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Why We Keep Missing All Our Opportunities

We miss our opportunities of love, happiness, career and success because we refuse to learn the lessons that come our way.
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We miss our opportunities of love, happiness, career and success because we refuse to learn the lessons that come our way. When a new opportunity comes, we would rather stay safe instead of taking a risk. We have been told to fear the future and to believe in the past.

All PAIN and SUFFERING is giving us an emotional sign to change our current circumstances. When you don't change, more pain and suffering will come your way. FEAR dominates the world's energy and keeps us from having the life we could have. We just live in a state of regret and sorrow.

HERE ARE THE 5 LESSONS WE REFUSE TO LEARN:
When an opportunity comes our way it forces us to:

1. CHANGE. - Life is Change. People who do not change are left behind. The unhappy people of today refuse to change.

2. Have more COURAGE - It takes courage to live a happy life. It takes courage to love again, to believe again and to smile again. The more courage you have, the better the life.

3. To connect with your INSTINCTS and disconnect with your mind. The real objective of your mind is to make sure you fail. Your instincts are trying to get you a new and better life.

4. To believe more in YOURSELF. What you believe is what will show up in your life. When don't really believe in yourself, nothing will work out.

5. Stop blaming anyone and take ACTIONS. If you would like to know why you are not so happy or successful well... find a mirror and you will find the person stopping you.

ONCE YOU LEARN THESE LESSONS YOU WILL HAVE THE LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED! www.bernardhiller.com Acting and Life Coach