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Why You Should Always Keep Moving Forward

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If you ask my boyfriend, he will tell you how much I hate to feel like I am stuck in one place. Whether it's at a job, in a mindset, or in my family life, I hate getting stuck in a rut. Things may be going fine, but if I'm not moving forward I feel like I'm sinking in quicksand, and I try to find the nearest escape. For a restless soul like mine, it's a bad feeling to be stagnant in the same place for too long.

I used to think I had a gypsy soul, and that I was meant to roam the world forever. Although that still sounds like music to my ears, I gladly settled down and planted some roots when I had my son. Even though I won't be moving any time soon, I still feel the need to keep on moving along in other aspects of my life. My wise mother has reassured me that it's a good thing to be looking to the future with hope and goals instead of settling for mediocrity.

The first place to look is at your job. Are you happy there? Is there room to grow, or advancements to be made? If you find yourself losing a piece of your soul every day at your place of work, do something about it! Talk to your boss; let them know how you are feeling and chances are they will try to solve the problem with you. They will know if there are any openings in different positions that would interest you, and they can give you an idea on where you are headed (if anywhere) within the company.

Sometimes the best thing you can do to move forward is to literally move. Pick up and move across the country, or just 30 minutes down the road. Hire movers, or pack your whole life into the backseat of your car, the choice is yours. The point is, you are not a tree -- you are not stuck where you are unhappy. There will always be another job, another place to live, and new friends to be made in a new place. You never know what could come from it, so why hesitate? Take the risks while you still can, and it can absolutely change your life for the better.

Sometimes I find that the only "rut" in my life exists in my own head. It's easy to let negativity sink in and misconstrue the way you look at things. Something that would normally roll off your back could turn your whole week upside down if you have the wrong mentality. I have found that committing to personal development everyday makes a huge difference. Whether it's listening to a positive podcast, reading an inspirational book, or simply talking to your best friend for a little bit every day, these things can make a big difference. Keeping the right mentality is so important, and it will keep you motivated in other areas of your life.

If you are feeling stuck and unsatisfied with your life, do something about it! Move, partake in some personal development, or re-evaluate your career to try and get out of any rut you may be in. I believe the best thing you can do for yourself in life is to keep on keeping on. Keep moving forward, and keep bettering yourself. This looks different for everyone, so only you know how that applies to your life. At the end of the day, you are the only one who is responsible for your own happiness, and it is up to you to find it.