Hillary is redefining how all American women work and are seen in the world, she is the leading the evolution of our species towards equality. Like her or not, Hillary Clinton is our champion. Voting Hillary Clinton in to the seat of power is a game changer for all us women, it shifts us all.

What happens if you don't find a singleton in the room? What if everyone is already grouped together and chatting merrily while you are standing alone, feeling foolish?

I think I'm a minority judging by the comments commending her for her bravery. It's not that I don't believe people engaged in affairs cannot change, or deeply regret their behavior after some painful consequences. It's not that I don't think Other Women are beyond reach. It's that I don't find her remorse convincing.

I behaved badly. That may seem obvious to you but it's taken me a long time to admit that, even to myself. For years I was so viciously attacked by the media and the world that I felt like a victim. I now realize that the attacks are actually beside the point. The point is: I behaved badly.

What are we to make of these powerful men behaving badly? Are there lessons we can learn from them? I would suggest the answer is "yes."