Asian fetish

Plus: A love letter to my partner who taught me to be trans.
There's a big difference between having a type and having a full-on fetish.
I learned to think of all Asians as less desirable and to be turned off by people who were turned on by me.
“Now that this news has broken, like myself, hundreds of women are realizing they were victimized. And now, we are choosing to speak out against USC and its cover-up of Dr. Tyndall’s behavior.”
Real talk on dating apps, fetishization and parental expectations.
Living in Asia gave me a small understanding of what it might be like to be white in America.
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The complications of sexual politics notwithstanding, fetishists are easy to spot. They come at you with their prayer-bead bracelets and their suspiciously in-depth knowledge of your "culture."
[The New York Observer: "The Hipster Grifter"] [Gawker: "The Hipster Grifter's Charm in Action"] [photo via amandalynnferri
Reducing Asian women into a sexual object is not funny, it is not flattering. It is perilous. We can see this when Asian women are subject to race-targeted sexual violence.