commitment issues

When the person you're dating says they have a fear of commitment, believe them.
Has this ever happened to you? You meet a guy and the sparks are clearly there... there's no denying that he has feelings for you and all signs are pointing to that four letter word -- LOVE -- but then without warning he pulls away emotionally.
It's about expectations, she says.
If someone loves you, they want to be with you, they are invested in you and they feel proud of you. They feel obligated, responsible and committed to your relationship. Don't sell yourself short.