So how do we understand and respond when we encounter darkness, adversity, and challenges to our basic goodness, to our fundamental
I love America - blemishes and all. I respect other's opinions and rights and our democratic process. Congress should model
What happened to reverse, in many cases, the progress that had been underway? First, frightful violations of the practices
For many Americans, the 2016 presidential election campaign has been traumatic. Many supporters of Hillary Clinton, and others
Alan Alda said, "Real listening is a willingness to let the other person change you." If you allow people a safe space to
10. Move on. When the conflict is resolved you can either 1) embrace the solution knowing you may need to tweak it one day
Let's face it, this election has been unusually stressful. Personally, neither candidate embodies what I expect from the
We can teach our kids simple methods of active listening- not for the purpose of rebuttal but for the purpose of understanding
Every year I run a conflict resolution station at the 5th grade retreat for a local school. The first thing I ask is for them to tell me what words come to mind when I say the word conflict. Every year, all the adjectives are negative.
Nothing has inspired me more than the sacrifices I have seen African parents make to send their children to school. In Swaziland in the 1990s, I calculated that a typical rural family spent over 60 percent of its disposable income to pay for school fees, books and uniforms.
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The Islamic State and the Nusra Front are the primary spoilers. ISIL is not interested in state-building unless it involves
As a mediator and conflict coach, the notion that we must avoid conflict concerns me. I don't think it's fair to view conflict
Conflict can lead to greater understanding. Conflict can clarify similarities, differences, and preferences. Conflict can help couples learn how to deal with future conflict. And, perhaps most importantly, conflict can make it clear where efforts to communicate can and should be strengthened.
I love Why - it's my go to question. I'm a professional mediator - so by nature, and by training, my first question is always, "why?" Why do you want that? Why do you think that? Why do you think they think that? Why do you think they did that and want that? And, why on God's green earth would they say that?
Trigger events such as the U.S. election season give many of us permission to express our anger. As a leader, do we ignore them, and hope these polarizing feelings are just temporary? Is political upheaval truly the cause of this wave of anger, or an excuse?
On July 24th, 2016, we celebrated with the people of Colombia the historic commitment by the Government and FARC-EP at the Havana Peace Talks Table to ensure that one of the agreement's fundamental objectives is to promote gender equality and the empowerment of women.
Each week at The Pollination Project, we shine a spotlight on seven recent recipients of seed grants, allowing their visions
As you focus on self-love, you will discover many loving actions in the face of conflict. Letting go of trying to change your partner and taking loving action for your self are the keys to conflict resolution without words.
“I’m sorry, okay?!” does not work.
You can still feel angry about their decisions, but a mature adult chooses to handle that anger in a constructive manner so that they can experience personal growth and see the relationship ultimately thrive.