Really, guys? Like, REALLY?
If publishers know you want something different, they will be DELIGHTED to oblige.
And the simple fact of the matter is, if you are a female author, you are much more likely to get the package that suggests
If you are a female author, you are much more likely to get a package that suggests the book is of a lower perceived quality. We're the high fructose corn syrup of literature, even when our products are the same.