"The biggest question for me was what did this mean about my sexuality? What did that mean for me and Ella? Would we break up?"
"I had no idea what a mixed-orientation marriage was ... until I suddenly found myself in one."
“You have to make sure your marriage is something that brings both of you back home."
Feeling all warm and gooey because your spouse had a great time banging someone else is not something we're socialized to feel. We can be thrilled for our partner if they get a raise or promotion, but why can't we be happy for our partners who find joy in bed with someone else?