fake it til you make it

Please don't. Instead, let me offer you six ways to gain the relationship edge in business and life that don't require you to be a poser. is what I recommend you do -- seek to help, give, assist, empower, and support.
Some throw big weddings. Others throw lavish birthday parties. I put a chunk of money into a paper shredder and blew out an awesome webseries for anyone who's ever asked, "Whatever happened to Jaleel White?"