"People insist on trivializing and demoralizing sex with fat black women."
When I first started meeting up with strangers, I would make sure to warn them that I am "not a small girl." I think I was holding on to the last bit of self-consciousness about my size.
A year ago, I went out for runs in whatever raggedy old stretchy thing would provide the best camouflage. Now I gear up in clothes that work for me because this is a passion I've proven my commitment to.
"You don't need qualifiers to be a sexy woman, you are already there."