Everyone it seems wants sex tips, sex hacks, how to make love better. How to keep the hot in relationships. How to turn a woman on. People come to me every day wanting to know 'the secret.' And it really starts with understanding that desire is the real female orgasm.
For SELF, by Zahra Barnes Let it go — and go get it. As many enterprising people with clitorises know, there are various
This is as real as it gets.
The real question that should have been asked is why wouldn't females have orgasms. If there was strong selection for orgasms in males, then females would have inherited the trait as long as it did not impair their survival or reproductive success.
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It's tempting to listen to women's magazines and believe female orgasms are a small pleasure to make up for periods and pregnancy
Researchers may have determined the origins of the female climax.
It's seemingly impossible to engage in a candid discussion about "flickin' the bean," even from girlfriends who are quick to talk about their explicit escapades. But like many misconceptions about female sexuality, the blame can't be placed on one single person.
I need to out myself. Sometimes in standing for women's sexual pleasure, I forget or purposefully shut down my range. Rather than feeling and honoring my frustration, anger, and pain, I judge it. I tell myself I "shouldn't" feel this "negative" emotion because I am about pleasure.
In this day and age, women have won the right to vote, to burn our bras, and to climb the corporate ladder. Why do we still find it a challenge to be honest in the bedroom? And could this duplicity potentially lead us astray when looking for Mr. Right?
We'll have what she's having!