From someone inside the house, sex was the least interesting thing about the show, instead, the psychology of how many of the suitors came to know each other affectionately as "sister-wives" fell front and center for us as a way to explain the ways in which we could build community even in a high-stress, competitive environment.
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After years of stereotypical depictions of intergenerational relationships in TV, porn and movies, it's increasingly clear that our community would do well to shed these hang-ups. We may well be strong, capable and sexual, but without desirable older role models, without a positive, normal vision of what an older gay man can be, we're stunted.