Everyone loves a good cocktail party -- cocktails and conversation -- what's not to love?

What we all remember, what we all enjoy, are life's messy moments. Stilted perfection might appeal on the glossy magazine page, but would be so cold and impersonal if we were seated in the midst of it.

And just like that 2015 is coming to a close. I can hardly believe it's already the end of December, but hey that means it's time for sparkling cocktails and delicious appetizers.

It's far too easy to overlook this basic etiquette.