When Cameron states that, "Wives are to honor and respect and follow their husband's lead," he is adding to scripture. That instruction is not to be found anywhere in the actual text.

"I felt like my silence in that moment was not beneficial."

20 year ago, Peyton wasn't who Studios hired to helm their effects-filled franchise films. He was the guy you hired to create the Special Features that then got tacked on to the VHS version of these sorts of movies.