not drinking

Breaking down small ways you can reduce your alcoholic drinks.
To this day, I cannot tell you my professors' names, the books that I read, nor the men that I dated, but I can tell you what I wore and what I drank.
The contemporary way of building relationships is by going out for drinks. We set up a time, show up at a noisy restaurant or bar, then sit and talk over loud music until the waiter drops the check. It's a phenomenon I began calling "relationships by appointment."
For nearly my entire adult life I have been consistently drunk, stoned or otherwise impaired. So much so that my identity was wrapped up in being a shitshow.
The bad news is I'm still waiting on that relationship. The good news is the length of time it's taken for that point of