In summary, the passion and persistence of grit motivates and carries us over rough seas like a well-made surfboard. We can think of an absence of effort like a crack in our surfboard that needs repair.
You may not know where your detour is headed, and the road may be terrifying at times, but that's OK. Part of being a "Detourist" means just showing up and staying open to where the path may lead.
Can't is a word so frequently used, it's a crutch. When I tell, mainly women, some of the exercises I'm doing, like pull-ups, I immediately hear the pushback.