Purity culture taught young girls like me to bear responsibility for men’s lust.
Amy Kohn's documentary, "A Courtship," offers a sensitive look at those who believe God picks their mates.
But victim-blaming persists in Mormon purity culture.
These are some issues you might face as you take on the challenge of self-observation as a meditation practice and hopefully as an every moment of everyday spiritual practice. As you do, it will help to remember (especially in those times when it seems like a difficult practice) the joy is in the seeing!
We visited Jonathan Franzen at his California home, where he shared his approach to writing character-driven novels and his thoughts on being a writer in America: "I play for 'Team Literature' and so I'm on the lookout for things that threaten the team."
Sometimes going stag is the way to go.
If I could sum up the era of my life in which I was discovering my sexuality in one word, that word would be: shame. Despite the personal nature of this story, I feel compelled to share it, because I fully believe that no young woman should have to experience such intense shame -- yet the sad truth is, most do.
I really perked up when the conversation turned to the notion of likability. Who says we have to like a character? Yet Franzen claims that "the safest thing" in writing fiction is not caring what the reader wants, in the sense of realizing, "Not everyone will like this guy."
It's about the encroachment of techno-fascism, a false utopia that leads inevitably to corruption and violence. Also, moms.
"Maybe I'll get a son who WILL finish his cottage cheese!"
The images, captured intensely against a white backdrop, appear at first almost like advertisements, with the subjects staring
As we approach your 14th birthday, it is with great trepidation and anxiety that I write this letter to you. I am so proud of the young lady you have become, but I feel I am fighting against the clock to instill in you the life lessons I hold so dear.