Is it just me or is it really easy to overcommit and find yourself neck-deep in obligations before you realize what's going on? You feel super-busy (not in a good way) and are becoming increasingly irritable.
Did you know a panic attack can feel like a heart attack? I didn’t, but I do now.
Just small samples at first, until I get you hooked on the power of it. You jones for the moment you can use your no on someone or something. Then that moment happens. Someone asks for something you are just not feeling like giving right then. And no takes over and it spills out of you. Elation and joy ensues. You are hooked and I'm on to the next corner of yessers.
The way I felt and behaved back then was not the legacy I wanted to leave. That's not how I wanted to be remembered. How about you? Do you want to be remembered as an unhappy, frustrated woman? You don't have to let your current situation determine how others will see you in the future.
At the end of the day you're left with you -- or whatever's left of you after energetic transactions with the outside world. Don't lay your head down each night in a deficit. Expending more energy than you're bringing in is just like going into financial debt, only it's far, far more costly in the long run.
Some of the work was very, very detail-oriented, which was not my forte. I knew that. I talked myself into it because I thought