sex and marriage
Has your sex life gone stale? This could be why.
My husband and I are about to celebrate our 17th wedding anniversary, and we haven't had sex in a year. You read that right: A year.
I had been married for nearly three years when I stopped wanting to "get busy" with the man to whom I'd pledged my life.
There is no time. Or, when there is time, your back is killing you from being a Baby Sherpa or child wrangler. Sex? Let's fill the tub with hot water for a good soak and then we can talk about it. Except, oops, no, you're asleep.
Her secret is more simple than that, but she fears it could spell the end of her marriage.
Juliet Jeske, a comedian, talks with Marc about how she didn't find out her husband was gay until they were married.
Caresse Dionne Spencer, a writer at AllIsVanity.net, joins HuffPost Live to discuss why she is waiting until marriage to have sex.
Feeling safe in a relationship is a process, and couples will need to develop tools and ways of communicating, much of which is non-verbal, to return to the secure feelings once the inevitable flare ups occur.