"Meet at a hotel bar for a few drinks. Connect without distraction and verbalize what you loved about each other in the beginning. Reclaim the glue that held you together at some point in time."

I had been married for nearly three years when I stopped wanting to "get busy" with the man to whom I'd pledged my life.

Sometimes you might love to gaze into your partner's eyes. But there are going to be moments when the distraction of focusing on the other person takes away from the intensity of the experience for you.

Stop focusing on what you don't have and start developing what you do have. Your sacrifice is only meaningful if you use it as a springboard to positive actions that keep you on track. The more love you give, the more you'll receive.

From day one, think TEAM. Remember that a team sees the problem as the enemy, whereas struggling couples see each other as the enemy.