"It’s sad and destructive that our society has an image of elder human beings as 'sexless,'" Norm Self said.

Back in my day, it was a lot tougher and riskier to find someone who wanted to have sex with us. There were no apps like Grindr for gay hookups, and we had to resort to all sorts of crazy behaviors to first discover, and then fulfill our desires.

Bisexually-oriented people often spend years asking themselves 'am I bisexual?' without reaching a conclusion, influenced by society's misconceptions that bisexuality doesn't exist or that you need to be equally attracted to men and women to be a 'true' bisexual.

I'm surprised that bisexuality remains the ugly stepchild of both the gay and straight communities.

Who is in your interior? Who do you cling to inside when you are most yourself.