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"We're all victims, both the gay spouse and the straight spouse are victims."
Bonnie Kaye, M.Ed., is an internationally known author and counselor to straight women who are married to gay men. She also counsels closeted gay men on how honesty can help them and their female spouses. Here she answers my question.
Carlos and Sara explain their unique relationship. They are still married despite Sara having come out of the closet and wanting relationships with women.
Tucked in a corner of the lesbian/gay/bisexual/transgender closet is a little-known group: straight women and men in heterosexual marriages whose husbands or wives come out as gay, lesbian, bisexual, or transgender after marrying them as "the right thing to do."
At the same time, homosexuals "caught" being homosexual were treated as criminals. In 1953, for example, President Dwight