successful marriage

We frequently fight, we often argue, laughter comes easy, and in the end we agree on where we are going, it's just how we get there that sometimes causes a problem. We've never had a plan, and despite working our asses off all these years, money's scarce. We fly by the seat of our pants.
It's all about listening and leaving time for each other.
Though it seems completely counterintuitive, regularly questioning my marriage actually keeps me even more committed to it.
Failure can be awfully lonely. But don't assume that victory will solve your problems.