There are some things most of us know about the clitoris besides the location: it's super sensitive and for most women (some studies argue 75 per cent of women), it's needed to reach an orgasm.
In a hilarious (but quite educational) video about the clitoris, Refinery 29 explores the musical history of the clit with singer Dorian Electra.
While the video may be for humour, it touches on important topics like taboos around female masturbation, Sigmund Freud's views on pleasure and the general mystique surrounding female genitalia.
And why stop with the learning there? Other interesting tidbits about your clitoris include the fact that it grows throughout a woman's lifetime, contains 8,000 sensitive nerve endings and it comes in many different shapes and sizes (just like women!). And according to the Cliteracy project, it wasn't until 1998 when scientists fully understood the anatomy of the clit.
Watch the full music video above and get ready, because this song is going to be in your head for the rest of the day.
9 Things You Should Know About Orgasms
It's Less Common In Women(01 of09)
Open Image ModalStart Out(02 of09)
Open Image ModalIf you’re having trouble reaching an orgasm, whether solo or with a partner, some quality time with yourself is the way forward, Marin says. "I wholeheartedly believe that the best way to learn how to orgasm is on your own,” she says. "In a funny way, it's sort of like that old saying 'you can't love anyone else until you can love yourself'! Masturbation is the key to learning how to orgasm." (credit:mocker_bat via Getty Images)
It's Not Just The Physical(03 of09)
Open Image ModalWorking with a sex therapist can help you uncover the mental barriers standing between you and an orgasm. "When I coach clients, we spend a good deal of time trying to uncover and understand their mental blockages,” Marin says. "There are lots of dynamics that could be at play, including internalized shame, poor body image, feeling unsafe [usually because there's been a history of sexual abuse], fear of the unknown, or fear of losing control." (credit:monkeybusinessimages via Getty Images)
Think About Your Past(04 of09)
Open Image ModalIf you aren’t having the results you’d like from sex today, think about what sex has meant as a part of your life through the years. Marin suggests some starting questions: "What were you taught about sex, your body, and masturbation growing up? Have you had any experiences that might make you feel unsafe? What's your general relationship with your body like? Are you able to feel present and comfortable in your own skin? Do you have any fears about orgasm?” Examining these and other areas can help you figure out how your past history with sex is affecting you today. (credit:Medioimages/Photodisc via Getty Images)
Rule Out Other Factors(05 of09)
Open Image ModalThere are some physical factors that could affect your ability to orgasm. Marin says the one she sees most often is antidepressant use. "Researchers don't fully understand the connection between antidepressants and orgasm, but many people report that it's more difficult or even impossible for them to orgasm while on antidepressants,” she says. Other factors like spinal cord injuries can affect your ability to orgasm. But mitigating factors don’t mean you can’t orgasm, just that you may have a challenge to face that others do not. (credit:Mara Zemgaliete via Getty Images)
Bring In The Experts(06 of09)
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Open Image ModalAnd of course, there’s always porn! Watching pornography is one way to explore what turns you on, and to get some idea of the breadth of what works for other people. And what’s out there now is a lot more varied than the stereotypical image many of us hold of pornography — so if that doesn’t do it for you, don’t write off adult entertainment entirely. Look for work by female directors like Nina Hartley, Erica Lust, Tristan Taormino, and Shine Louise Houston as a starting point. (credit:LuckyBusiness via Getty Images)
Visit A Sex Shop(09 of09)
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