Karen Cooper
For International Women's Day 2012, the theme is 'connecting girls and futures.' The Huffington Post Canada is asking girls and women what matters the most to them. Join the conversation with the hashtag #womenof2012 or leave us a comment to answer any of the questions below.
Name: Karen Cooper
Age: 40
City: London, Ont.
Occupation: Web/Graphic Designer
Who is your biggest influence?
I don't have just one. My family, my best friend -- if I can be anything like them then I am doing pretty good.
What do you think is the biggest issue facing women your age today? Still facing competition from men, especially in the workforce.
Who are your ideal female icons?
Strong women who use their "power" for good. Also people who remain grounded and don't let fame go to their heads.
Do you think there's equality between men and women in your workplace?
In mine, yes.
Do you think a female prime minister or president would be any different than a male? Why and how?
They shouldn't be -- being a UK citizen I grew up with Margaret Thatcher in power. I think whoever is right for the job should get the job, regardless of whether they are male or female.
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day?
I have to admit I didn't realize there was one.
What do you want to be when you grow up?
Happy in my life and my work, and I think I'm about 3/4s of the way there!
How you feel about how women are represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them?
It's better today than a few years ago. I think in the "celebrity" world there are more female superstars appearing to rival the males.
What do you consider 'female' attributes?
Caring, kind, sensitive, strong -- but these are attributes I like to see in anyone, not just females :)
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International Women's Day 2012
Nina, Age 10(01 of22)
What do you think is the biggest issue facing girls your age today?
Stereotypes like girls should wear pink. I think that if someone tells a girl that they are not a girl because they don't act or look like one, then the girl might not feel like herself anymore.
Read Nina's story here. (credit:Tonya Martin )
Stereotypes like girls should wear pink. I think that if someone tells a girl that they are not a girl because they don't act or look like one, then the girl might not feel like herself anymore.
Read Nina's story here. (credit:Tonya Martin )
Shannique, Age 14(02 of22)
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them?
I don't really see myself in any of them because a lot of them aren't even black. The people edit them to their liking instead of keeping them how they look.
Read Shannique's story here.
I don't really see myself in any of them because a lot of them aren't even black. The people edit them to their liking instead of keeping them how they look.
Read Shannique's story here.
Eden, Age 19(03 of22)
Who are your ideal female icons?
My mother is my ideal female icon. She is proof that a woman can do all of the things that a man can do. She has suffered from rhumathoid arthritis since my younger sister was born. And as a single parent she would fix house hold appliances and was never afraid to get her hands dirty.
Read Eden's story here.
My mother is my ideal female icon. She is proof that a woman can do all of the things that a man can do. She has suffered from rhumathoid arthritis since my younger sister was born. And as a single parent she would fix house hold appliances and was never afraid to get her hands dirty.
Read Eden's story here.
Chandeep, Age 32(04 of22)
What do you want to be when you grow up?
I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up! AllI know is that I want to make a difference and put my efforts toward a meaningful purpose. I have always wanted to work with an NGO that tackles sustainability/conflict and security/ child poverty issues, so maybe that's where I'll go next. Read Chandeep's story here.
I'm still trying to figure out what I want to be when I grow up! AllI know is that I want to make a difference and put my efforts toward a meaningful purpose. I have always wanted to work with an NGO that tackles sustainability/conflict and security/ child poverty issues, so maybe that's where I'll go next. Read Chandeep's story here.
Karen, Age 40(05 of22)
Do you think a female prime minister or president would be any different than a male? Why and how?
They shouldn't be -- being a UK citizen I grew up with Margaret Thatcher in power. I think whoever is right for the job should get the job, regardless of whether they are male or female.
Read Karen's story here.
They shouldn't be -- being a UK citizen I grew up with Margaret Thatcher in power. I think whoever is right for the job should get the job, regardless of whether they are male or female.
Read Karen's story here.
Connie Burke, Age 22, Iqaluit, Nunavut(06 of22)
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day?
Yes, Definitely. Women have come so far along since the 1900's, it is a day to remember and to appreciate all that has been accomplished. It's a day to recognize women are capable of doing any job they wish.
Do you think a female prime minister would be any different than a male?
Women today have greatly evolved into strong leadership roles. Nunavut itself is run by great women such as Eva Aariak, Nunavuts Premier, Madeline Redfern, Iqaluit Mayor, Leona Aglukkaq, Nunavut's MP and Health Minister as well as Cathy Towtongie, President of Nunavut Tungavik Incorporated (NTI). Women are definitely capable of running a country, like any man could.
Yes, Definitely. Women have come so far along since the 1900's, it is a day to remember and to appreciate all that has been accomplished. It's a day to recognize women are capable of doing any job they wish.
Do you think a female prime minister would be any different than a male?
Women today have greatly evolved into strong leadership roles. Nunavut itself is run by great women such as Eva Aariak, Nunavuts Premier, Madeline Redfern, Iqaluit Mayor, Leona Aglukkaq, Nunavut's MP and Health Minister as well as Cathy Towtongie, President of Nunavut Tungavik Incorporated (NTI). Women are definitely capable of running a country, like any man could.
Arti Patel, Associate Editor At Huffington Post Canada, Age 22(07 of22)
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them?A lot of the times, you see women of colour -- South Asian women in particular -- in the media or in film but we're usually represented as "exotic" or "different." Also, when women of colour are shown in mainstream media, they often appear "white" through lightening, hair changes, or even their actions. For myself, I would like to see more opportunities for women of colour to be represented in the media -- but at the same time, the media has to play its role in not stereotyping them. (credit:HuffPost)
Christina, Age 49(08 of22)
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day? Yes. It's a much-needed annual reminder that women's rights are human rights. This fact is constantly ignored in many parts of the world, but even more so during difficult economic times as these issues can push gender equality further out of the spotlight.
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them? Women of my age don't really have a place in the world of hyper-sexualized young women that are ubiquitous in popular culture, if not in the real world. After 40, women are portrayed as either harried housewives with hapless husbands or hard-boiled business women. I aspire to neither of these options. (credit:HuffPost)
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them? Women of my age don't really have a place in the world of hyper-sexualized young women that are ubiquitous in popular culture, if not in the real world. After 40, women are portrayed as either harried housewives with hapless husbands or hard-boiled business women. I aspire to neither of these options. (credit:HuffPost)
Rebecca Zamon, Living Editor At Huffington Post Canada, Age 32(09 of22)
What do you think is the biggest issue facing women your age today? I think women my age are struggling with the balancing act, and it often goes much further than just work and family. I know many women who feel both incredibly lucky and incredibly stressed to have so many choices available to them, choices their mothers never had. It often means that we must figure out how to be workers, wives, sisters, daughters, friends and citizens all on our own schedules, instead of using one that's been set out for us. (credit:HuffPost)
Lauren Strapagiel, Weekend Editor At Huffington Post Canada, Age 22(10 of22)
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day?
Despite being the majority of both Canada and the world's population, women are politically, socially and economically a minority group. International Women's Day is a reminder that we have so much to celebrate and also so much to fight for. It's easy for us here in a first world country to proclaim that we're all equal or that feminism is obsolete, and today is a loud proclamation that says, no, there is still work to be done.
Despite being the majority of both Canada and the world's population, women are politically, socially and economically a minority group. International Women's Day is a reminder that we have so much to celebrate and also so much to fight for. It's easy for us here in a first world country to proclaim that we're all equal or that feminism is obsolete, and today is a loud proclamation that says, no, there is still work to be done.
Christie Hill, Age 29(11 of22)
What do you think is the biggest issue facing women your age today?
I think the biggest issue facing women my age today is feeling like we have to be perfect at everything -- and look good doing it! We are seldom taught it's ok to make mistakes to learn and to make the decisions we feel are right for us. Women have a harder time saying 'no' with the fear we will be disappointing someone or having someone see us in a negative light. More times than not, we're afraid to ask for help to avoid looking weak; I'm a big believer in 'girls sticking together' to help each other succeed -- and celebrate those successes -- instead of bringing each other down.
I think the biggest issue facing women my age today is feeling like we have to be perfect at everything -- and look good doing it! We are seldom taught it's ok to make mistakes to learn and to make the decisions we feel are right for us. Women have a harder time saying 'no' with the fear we will be disappointing someone or having someone see us in a negative light. More times than not, we're afraid to ask for help to avoid looking weak; I'm a big believer in 'girls sticking together' to help each other succeed -- and celebrate those successes -- instead of bringing each other down.
Norene Gilletz, Age 71(12 of22)
Do you think a female prime minister would be any different than a male? Why and how? Women see things differently than men do, can multi-task, are goal-oriented and get the job done. They are usually more tactful.
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them? I'm often involved with the media because of my culinary career. I believe women should embrace their age - every day is a gift. Movie and TV stars have huge challenges to deal with as they need to look young and beautiful. Wrinkles and a few extra pounds aren't such a bad thing - never trust a skinny chef! I'm my own person - it comes with age and life experiences.
What do you consider 'female' attributes?: Being warm, caring, feminine, mothering - and sexy - usually not at the same time! (credit:Norene Gilletz)
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them? I'm often involved with the media because of my culinary career. I believe women should embrace their age - every day is a gift. Movie and TV stars have huge challenges to deal with as they need to look young and beautiful. Wrinkles and a few extra pounds aren't such a bad thing - never trust a skinny chef! I'm my own person - it comes with age and life experiences.
What do you consider 'female' attributes?: Being warm, caring, feminine, mothering - and sexy - usually not at the same time! (credit:Norene Gilletz)
Ashley Arvai, 30(13 of22)
Do you think a female prime minister would be any different than a male? Why and how?
I think a female prime minister would certainly bring a fresh and diverse outlook to our country -- and we should eagerly embrace any females open to taking on such a major responsibility. Canada is home to so many inspiring, intelligent and talented women who consistently blaze trails small and large! It would be amazing to have a keen female perspective on issues facing Canadians today .
I think a female prime minister would certainly bring a fresh and diverse outlook to our country -- and we should eagerly embrace any females open to taking on such a major responsibility. Canada is home to so many inspiring, intelligent and talented women who consistently blaze trails small and large! It would be amazing to have a keen female perspective on issues facing Canadians today .
Matilda Miranda, Intern At Huffington Post Canada, Age 22(14 of22)
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day?
It's easy to forget how far women have come -- So I definitely think it's a great idea to have a day dedicated to women. While a lot has been accomplished, we have a long way to go in achieving equality all around the world. Hopefully International Women's Day starts that discussion yearly and creates a movement that forces change worldwide and in our daily lives.
It's easy to forget how far women have come -- So I definitely think it's a great idea to have a day dedicated to women. While a lot has been accomplished, we have a long way to go in achieving equality all around the world. Hopefully International Women's Day starts that discussion yearly and creates a movement that forces change worldwide and in our daily lives.
Jessica Renaud, Age 26(15 of22)
Below is my answer to Who are your ideal female icons?
When I think of my ideal female icons, the first woman that comes to mind is my mother. I'm 26 (soon to be 27) and have a hard time keeping my life on track between work, my relationship, friends and finances. My mother was married with three children by the time she was 27, worked full-time and always made sure there was a home cooked meal on the table. I have NO idea how she did it. Mother-daughter relationships are roller coasters, especially through teenage years -- I love you, I love you not -- but I can honestly say, she has been the most influential person in my life -- pushing, encouraging, always listening, never judging, and leading by example. So here's to you Mom, Happy International Woman's Day.
When I think of my ideal female icons, the first woman that comes to mind is my mother. I'm 26 (soon to be 27) and have a hard time keeping my life on track between work, my relationship, friends and finances. My mother was married with three children by the time she was 27, worked full-time and always made sure there was a home cooked meal on the table. I have NO idea how she did it. Mother-daughter relationships are roller coasters, especially through teenage years -- I love you, I love you not -- but I can honestly say, she has been the most influential person in my life -- pushing, encouraging, always listening, never judging, and leading by example. So here's to you Mom, Happy International Woman's Day.
Liza Haddad, Marketing Coordinator, AOL Canada, Age 22(16 of22)
Who is your biggest influence?
My mom and my sister, Lamar. My mother was one of the strongest women I have ever/will ever encounter, her battle with breast cancer couldn't even break her spirit, even until her final days. Her smile could light up a room and continues to light up my days. I'm lucky enough to see her smile almost every day through my older sister who if I could describe in one word is undoubtedly -- fearless.
My mom and my sister, Lamar. My mother was one of the strongest women I have ever/will ever encounter, her battle with breast cancer couldn't even break her spirit, even until her final days. Her smile could light up a room and continues to light up my days. I'm lucky enough to see her smile almost every day through my older sister who if I could describe in one word is undoubtedly -- fearless.
Amanjeet K Chauhan(17 of22)
How do you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them?
Not so much -- yet. There is a difference between positive representation vs. a token gesture sprinkled here and there. As society continues shifting globally, and we establish a presence via traditional and non-traditional media avenues, I believe there will be increasingly better representation for women overall. We're not all the same. That's a good thing.
Not so much -- yet. There is a difference between positive representation vs. a token gesture sprinkled here and there. As society continues shifting globally, and we establish a presence via traditional and non-traditional media avenues, I believe there will be increasingly better representation for women overall. We're not all the same. That's a good thing.
Lamar Haddad(18 of22)
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day?
It's important to remember to celebrate women every day, but certainly having an International Women's Day is vital, as it gives the world an opportunity to remember, honour and celebrate the women who have touched our lives. International Women's Day joins us all as one, breaking down borders and distances -- reminding us that we are all connected and special in this world.
It's important to remember to celebrate women every day, but certainly having an International Women's Day is vital, as it gives the world an opportunity to remember, honour and celebrate the women who have touched our lives. International Women's Day joins us all as one, breaking down borders and distances -- reminding us that we are all connected and special in this world.
Laura Pearce, Marketing Director AOL Canada(19 of22)
What do you consider 'female' attributes?
I would like it if we didn't differentiate female and male attributes so much -- I would like it to be okay to have strong, determined and driven women, who are also loving, caring moms, sisters and friends.
I would like it if we didn't differentiate female and male attributes so much -- I would like it to be okay to have strong, determined and driven women, who are also loving, caring moms, sisters and friends.
Kristina Crosbie, Mortgage Agent, Age 32(20 of22)
Who is your idol? My mom, Eileen Crosbie, who has been a shining light for our community of Smiths Falls is my absolute idol. As business woman of the year, and a member of the rotary club helping others in our community over the years, she spends countless hours of her personal time helping those most in need. As a developing mortgage agent under her wings, she has been my guiding light and is showing me the ropes in all walks of life. We can all strive to be beautiful, inside and out, to help others and make a difference, but we must also strive to follow our dreams and as women, continue to inspire those around us.
Lisa Yeung, Managing Editor, Living The Huffington Post Canada(21 of22)
How you feel about women represented in the media, film and pop culture? Can you see yourself in any of them?
If Margaret Cho was on Mad Men, Walking Dead, Pan Am, Desperate Housewives, and Gossip Girl, and in all the Harry Potter movies (Ok, yes, there was Cho Chang) then yes, yes I could see myself reflected in the media (ok, yes, Margaret is Korean and I'm Chinese, but I love her). There's er, still a lot of work to do when it comes to proportionately representing women of different communities. I mean, Snooki's not even really Italian, so what does that say? (I'm kidding here). I'm looking forward to the day when a hit sitcom that's not on community cable actually reflects my multicultural family and friends.
But seriously. I think -- hope -- that there are real, if tiny, changes happening in the way women are represented in the media. Yes, we are still bombarded with deplorable portrayals of women in music videos/reality TV/soap operas/cleaning commercials/children's shows/sports shows/local newscasts/teen melodramas/you name it. But now we have Liz Lemon. We have Sue Sylvester. We have the cast of Bridesmaids. We have Betty White (whom we've always had, but she's having a renaissance at age 90, how great is that)? Caucasian treasures all. We need more of them, from all different communities. We need to tip the balance so the token becomes the norm. Because, really, who doesn't want more Margaret Cho?
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day? Yes. 100 per cent yes. Always and forever.
If Margaret Cho was on Mad Men, Walking Dead, Pan Am, Desperate Housewives, and Gossip Girl, and in all the Harry Potter movies (Ok, yes, there was Cho Chang) then yes, yes I could see myself reflected in the media (ok, yes, Margaret is Korean and I'm Chinese, but I love her). There's er, still a lot of work to do when it comes to proportionately representing women of different communities. I mean, Snooki's not even really Italian, so what does that say? (I'm kidding here). I'm looking forward to the day when a hit sitcom that's not on community cable actually reflects my multicultural family and friends.
But seriously. I think -- hope -- that there are real, if tiny, changes happening in the way women are represented in the media. Yes, we are still bombarded with deplorable portrayals of women in music videos/reality TV/soap operas/cleaning commercials/children's shows/sports shows/local newscasts/teen melodramas/you name it. But now we have Liz Lemon. We have Sue Sylvester. We have the cast of Bridesmaids. We have Betty White (whom we've always had, but she's having a renaissance at age 90, how great is that)? Caucasian treasures all. We need more of them, from all different communities. We need to tip the balance so the token becomes the norm. Because, really, who doesn't want more Margaret Cho?
Do you think it's important to have an International Women's Day? Yes. 100 per cent yes. Always and forever.
Samantha Anderson, Age 23(22 of22)
What do you think is the biggest issue facing girls your age today?
We need to be more vocal about asserting ourselves, our agency and our right to be who we are and to utilize our rights to help each other and press the government for positive change when it comes to laws regarding the well-being of women.Do you think there's equality between men and women in your school?
I think society in general needs to be less focused on gender, and more focused on people and their achievements. At Ryerson, people do strive for inclusive environments, but we need to see that put into action on an individual level. Everyone can put effort into that. It's as simple as respecting and being sensitive to the issues that young women face.What do you want to be when you grow up?
A journalist...so I can contribute to changing the way the media deals with Aboriginal women.(shown with Niki Singh, co-editors-in-chief of feminist magazine McClung's) (credit:Brian Batista-Bettencourt)
We need to be more vocal about asserting ourselves, our agency and our right to be who we are and to utilize our rights to help each other and press the government for positive change when it comes to laws regarding the well-being of women.Do you think there's equality between men and women in your school?
I think society in general needs to be less focused on gender, and more focused on people and their achievements. At Ryerson, people do strive for inclusive environments, but we need to see that put into action on an individual level. Everyone can put effort into that. It's as simple as respecting and being sensitive to the issues that young women face.What do you want to be when you grow up?
A journalist...so I can contribute to changing the way the media deals with Aboriginal women.(shown with Niki Singh, co-editors-in-chief of feminist magazine McClung's) (credit:Brian Batista-Bettencourt)