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Diverse Toys Could Help Children Become Compassionate Leaders

Kids connect with characters who look like them, even if those characters are sidelined. But during playtime, your kid is the casting director. A toy they can identify with makes them the hero of their own story, and could overcome what we call 'activist's block,' the self-diminishing excuse we hear often: "I'm just one person. What can I do?"
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There could be more at stake in the toy aisle than we realize.

The 2016 holiday rush capped off a record year of approximately $26 billion in toy sales in the United States alone. (That's a lot of Rogue One action figures). Meanwhile, toymakers have stepped up to meet demands for more diversity. Take Mattel's Barbie line featuring seven skin tones and more realistic body types, or Lego's set featuring a Minifigure in a wheelchair, both released last year.

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We know that research links children's toys and media choices to their self-esteem. Characters who look more like they do, rather than imagined ideals, help kids build confidence, the foundation for leadership skills. But here's the kicker: seeing toys that look like others (a different race, for instance) nurtures compassion.

If playtime is linked to self-esteem, leadership and compassion, could diverse toys help create the next generation of activists?

"[Diverse] dolls give kids a more robust and healthy sense of the world and of themselves," says Samantha Knowles, director of the award-winning documentary Why Do You Have Black Dolls?

Homogeny can have the opposite effect.

When you're seven years old, an action figure modeled after you is empowering.

Watching TV has been proven to boost self-esteem in white boys, who identify with an assembly line of white male protagonists, but lowers self-esteem for girls and children of colour, who usually see themselves in supporting or negative roles. Kids connect with characters who look like them, even if those characters are sidelined.

But during playtime, your kid is the casting director. A toy they can identify with makes them the hero of their own story, and could overcome what we call 'activist's block,' the self-diminishing excuse we hear often: "I'm just one person. What can I do?"

When you're seven years old, an action figure modeled after you is empowering. You are less alone.

"It sends a subtle message that you matter and that what you look like matters," says Knowles. "Someone took the time to make something in your likeness."

Better yet, give kids a toy that looks like someone who might be unfairly represented otherwise.

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Studies show that diverse dolls help kids become more empathetic and comfortable discussing not just race, but the way stigmatized groups are treated differently. This is a conversation that North America could use some help with.

"It's one thing to say, 'This is what race is.' It's a more subtle, more powerful thing to give them toys and let them learn," says Knowles.

A kid's toy box is their toolbox for crafting new narratives, so it matters what you fill it with. Any kid should be able to rehearse their first UN speech with a Barbie who shares their skin tone or imagine their Nobel Prize-winning breakthrough with a Lego scientist who shares their gender.

Toys can also help children recognize the stories they share with others who are different, and provide an imaginative space to see themselves as heroes.

Not just death-defying action heroes, but the kind of hero who compassion -- one who stands up for others.

Craig and Marc Kielburger are the co-founders of the WE movement, which includes WE Charity, ME to WE Social Enterprise and WE Day.

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All Kinds of Families(01 of13)
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By Mary Ann Hoberman

A “rollicking rhyme” about how families come in all kinds of shapes and sizes.

Buy it here: Chapters

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Hanuman and the Orange Sun(02 of13)
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By Amy Maranville
Illustrated by Tim Palin

This is the story of a little girl named Harini with “black hair and brown skin, who eats both Indian and American food, and sometimes interchanges English words with Telegu words.”

Mom Sailaja Joshi created the book’s publishing company Bharat Babies to help provide diversity in children’s books. “My daughter and her friends will be able to see themselves and their culture in the stories they read growing up,” Joshi says. “And that is incredibly empowering.”

Buy it here: Bharat Babies

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The Sandwich Swap(03 of13)
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By Queen Rania Of Jordan Al Abdullah

Lily and Salma are best friends who like all the same things, except for when it comes to their sandwiches. Lily likes peanut butter and Salma likes hummus. One day the girls have a disagreement over lunch. Soon the fight gets so big that it’s up to the principal and the entire student body to help teach the girls about acceptance and tolerance.

Buy it here: Amazon

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My Name is Yoon(04 of13)
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By Helen Recorvits

This is the story of a little girl named Yoon who struggles to fit in after her family moves from Korea to the U.S.

Buy it here: Amazon

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Wonder(05 of13)
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By R. J. Palacio

August Pullman is a fifth grader with a facial difference. All he wants is to be ordinary, but his classmates can’t get past his “extraordinary face.” Told from the changing perspectives of August and his classmates, this story teaches kids about compassion, differences, and acceptance.

Buy it here: Chapters

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The Colours of Us(06 of13)
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By Karen Katz

A little girl named Lena wants to paint a picture of herself using brown paint for her skin tone. But before she does, Lena and her mother take a walk through their neighbourhood where Lena learns that skin colour comes in all sorts of shades.

Buy it here: Amazon

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Grandmother’s Dreamcatcher(07 of13)
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By McCain

Kimmy stays with her Chippewa grandmother while her parents look for a house close to her dad’s new job. But while they’re away, Kimmy starts having bad dreams. So what does her grandmother do? She teaches Kimmy about a Native American tradition called dreamcatchers.

Buy it here: Amazon

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Nadia’s Hands(08 of13)
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By Karen English

Nadia is chosen to be the flower girl at her aunt’s traditional Pakistani wedding. For the ceremony, her hands are decorated with beautiful mehndi designs. But how will she explain the custom to her classmates? And how will they react? This is a story about how Nadia comes to understand her culture.

Buy it here: Amazon

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It’s Okay To Be Different(09 of13)
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By Todd Parr

Just as the title suggests, this fun, colourful read teaches kids that it’s okay to be different and that diversity should be celebrated.

Buy it here: Amazon

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Dipnetting with Dad(10 of13)
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By Willie Sellars

This is a lovely story about a father teaching his son about one of British Columbia’s oldest cultures. As the dad explains the Secwepemc method of fishing, the story highlights family values, storytelling, and coming of age.

Buy it here: Amazon

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A Rainbow of Friends(11 of13)
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A cute book teaching kids that friends come in all shapes, sizes, colours, and personalities!

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Juna’s Jar(12 of13)
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By Jane Bahk

This is the beautiful story about a childhood friendship. Juna and Hector are best friends who love collecting things in kimchi jars. One day, Hector unexpectedly moves away without saying goodbye, leaving Juna sad and alone. So the little girl sets out on an adventure to find her best friend with her special kimchi jar.

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Two Mrs. Gibsons(13 of13)
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By Toyomi Igus

This story celebrates diversity by highlighting the relationship between a little girl, her Japanese mother, and her African-American grandmother.

Buy it here: Chapters

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