Tips For Surviving An Affair

Tips For Surviving An Affair

Much of that harm has now been repaired. We told hardly anyone, our sex life is better than ever, and it does not feel as if we need counselling. Yet I am still haunted daily by the image of her with another man, and by memories of the happy family holiday we had around that time, which now feels tainted by what she disingenuously describes as a "horrible" secret. She hates me bringing up the subject because it fills her with "self-loathing", but 10 months on, her infidelity still occupies my mind. I still love her deeply, and have no real fears for the future, but I am tormented by the past.

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Read The Guardian readers' tips here.

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Matt Titus' advice on how to be faithful.

Rachel Kramer Bussel's case for open relationships.

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