James is my first grandchild. He's just over a year old now. I understand that when compared with others in our demographics, we're both still young. I just turned 50 and I'm probably not going anywhere soon. Even so, the things I want my grandson to know are important enough that I'm not taking chances. I want them here, in writing.
- The world isn't fair. Neither I, nor your parents, can change that for you. I hope that you are treated unfairly just often enough for you to realize how important justice is, and how hard you should work at treating others fairly. Stand up for the rights of those who will be treated far less justly than you. Though the world will never be fair, make sure the parts that you touch are as close to that as they can possibly be.
Then study harder and work more than your contemporaries.
When you can't be happy no matter how hard you try, get professional help. There is no shame in it.
higher power will do that job just fine.
I am neither an optimist nor a pessimist. Practicality has served me much better in my life and that is why I consider myself a realist. Realistically speaking, I have great hope for you and your generation. I see how far compassion and other good things have progressed since my own childhood. I can only imagine how much further those principles can be taken. So, if I'm not here to tell you... Ya already got told. Ya got no excuses. Now go out and get sumthin' done.
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