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12 Confessions From Husbands And Wives In Sexless Marriages

You're not alone.
03/23/2016 02:14pm ET

Many couples quietly suffer in sexless marriages. So many, in fact, that it's the top-searched marriage complaint on Google, according to data scientist Seth Stephens-Davidowitz. Searches for “sexless marriage” are three-and-a-half times more common than “unhappy marriage” and eight times more common than “loveless marriage.”

Below, 12 people open up about their sexless marriages on Whisper, an app that lets users share their deepest thoughts anonymously. See what they had to say, then see what experts recommend couples do to reignite the spark.

My wife and I haven
I
I want to leave my sexless marriage but I am so worried about what it will
do to the children that I will probably stay
Being in a sexless marriage sucks. This wasn
My husband won
I try my best to never make her feel guilty for our sexless marriage, but
on the inside I just want to scream.
I masturbate in the shower almost every night because my husband won
My husband won
My wife doesn
I don
I
I can
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