I went to bed late last night with a problem on my mind. It was still haunting me when I woke up this morning. Does this ever happen to you? Do you ever feel like a big dark cloud is following you from minute to minute?
Before I could get out of the house, I got an urgent call from a friend who is going through a big problem. I listened and tried to be supportive, but I really didn't have a lot of extra positive energy yet and I didn't want to be on that call.
Finally, I sat down at my desk, prepared to dive into a big work project that simply must be done today. As soon as I got started, I noticed my focus is off. I am doing it, but not with the creativity and dedication I expect from myself. That's when it hit me: I'm in a bad mood.
I remembered something I read about choices. I could give in to my bad mood and hope it will pass on its own, thus sacrificing whatever portion of my day/week/life it will occupy; or I can look it in the eye and hopefully scare it away.
I decided on the latter option. Like the monsters who lived under many of our beds when we were kids (mine was an alligator!), when we turn on the light, the monster magically disappears. I know this, but gosh! It's hard to do when you're scared.
To "turn on the light" on a ferocious, scary problem, there are five steps brave grown-ups can take.
5 Good Ways to Get Out of a Bad Mood
- Name it. A problem defined is half resolved.
Going through this process took me nearly two long, fear-filled hours this morning. But you know what? I feel a whole lot better now. The dryer just buzzed -- it's time to get going on that big work project with renewed energy, drive and focus -- and a way better mood.