As a young mother I entered a world where judgement is frequently passed on and where staring eyes has become the norm for us. Today, society appears to target young mothers as irresponsible far too often in this time. People point fingers if you're under 25 with a child or multiple children, people label you as mediocre if you have yet to obtain a college degree, people will even assume you won't continue to pursue your goals in life because you are a young mother. I constantly hear more negative remarks about women becoming pregnant than uplifting ones. Instead of encouraging our women to feel strong, divine, and invincible, this generation belittles them because of their age. Maybe some of us were too young to feel ready, maybe some of us actually chose to be mothers, regardless I believe young motherhood is powerful.
We young mothers have experienced a growth in maturity much quicker than most our age. We know it's not the easiest journey to embark on, but it is always worth it when we see those sweet smiles on our child's face and experience the pure love of our children as well. I have learned much more about myself than I ever have and I'm positive almost all can relate. This version of who I am now is one I never knew existed. My patience, humility, & selflessness has increased abundantly over the course of time. I have only gained strength from the challenges I come to face as a mother. This is the truth, I no longer strive for myself, I strive for my son as well. Don't ever allow someone to shame you for having a baby. Motherhood is a divine blessing whether it's at 18 or 35. As young mothers we have a great advantage in life, not everyone has the opportunity to create a path for themselves & their child to follow. Society believes our path should already be paved prior to entering motherhood, but our purpose is to grow and discover with our children as well.
Sisters in womanhood, we need to unite and stand together for one another, rather than degrade each other. Motherhood is in our divine nature, it is essential for us to recognize this as an eternal concept. Once we know this, we'll understand there is actually no wrong time to be a mother. Therefore, cease the negativity and stereotyping. These young ladies are working extremely hard towards success every day. It's a wonderful feeling for a young mom to be empowered, it radiates within us and shines right through us. The common discouraging or judgmental thoughts others may have about us are not even relevant once we accept that our role is being fulfilled. Moms, don't compare yourself to someone else, be proud of you are and what you've created. You're not perfect, but the gift of motherhood is. And if you're young & expecting there is nothing to fear. Simply allow yourself to blossom from it, embrace it, & cherish it. Everyone's situation is different, however, creating a life is something we share in common. Giving nurture to a little human is always needed in this world. You are essential. You are the most divine. You are a mother.
XOXO,
-D
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