Laila Was 13 When She Was Forced Into Marriage. Now She's Speaking Up For Change

Laila Was 13 When She Was Forced Into Marriage. Now She's Speaking Up For Change
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When Laila was 13 years old, the Yemeni teenager returned home from a fun day at school to find her mother crying in bed.

Her father returned home soon after and announced Laila was to be married within the next two weeks to a man 20 years older than she was, according to UNICEF. She entered her "nightmare."

"I started screaming, and my mother rushed out to grab me while my father angrily threatened to beat -- or even kill -- me, if I refused," Laila said to UNICEF.

She spoke with the human rights organization in order to shine a light on the damaging effects of early marriage, because, unfortunately, Laila's story is not rare. According to the International Center for Research on Women, one in nine girls globally will be married before the age of 15.

Girls younger than 15 who are forced into marriage are five times more likely to die in childbirth than women in their 20s. They also are more likely to experience domestic violence and live in poverty.

"Child marriage is an appalling violation of human rights and robs girls of their education, health and long-term prospects," Babatunde Osotimehin, M.D., executive director of the United Nations Population Fund, said in a press release last year. "A girl who is married as a child is one whose potential will not be fulfilled."

While early marriage exists virtually everywhere, rates differ dramatically based on region. In rural South Asia, for example, nearly a half of girls will be married before their 18th birthday, according to statistics produced by the United Nations.

Learn more about early marriage and take action at Girls Not Brides.

Before You Go

Nations With The Worst Human Rights Records
10. South Sudan(01 of11)
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In this photo taken Friday, Sept. 14, 2012, women carry tarpaulin sheets issued by the UN Refugee Agency (UNHCR) back from a distribution point, in Yida camp, South Sudan. (credit:AP Photo/Mackenzie Knowles-Coursin, File)
9. Yemen(02 of11)
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Yemeni men march during a protest to demand the repeal of an immunity for ousted president Ali Abdullah Saleh in Sanaa on September 11, 2012. (credit:MOHAMMED HUWAIS/AFP/GettyImages)
8. Syria(03 of11)
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In this Wednesday, Dec. 5, 2012 photo, a fire is seen inside an apartment, right, of a damaged building due heavy fighting between Free Syrian Army fighters and government forces in Aleppo, Syria. (credit:AP Photo/Narciso Contreras)
7. Iraq(04 of11)
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Iraqi federal policemen hold up their national during their graduation ceremony at the Police Training Academy in Baghdad, on November 27, 2012. (credit:AFP PHOTO / AHMAD AL-RUBAYE)
6. Myanmar(05 of11)
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Buddhist monks study at a Buddhist monastery in Mandalay, northern Myanmar, Saturday, Dec. 1, 2012. (credit:AP Photo/Gemunu Amarasinghe)
5. Pakistan(06 of11)
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Pakistani police cadets shout during the passing out parade in Karachi on December 12, 2012. (credit:AFP PHOTO/Rizwan TABASSUM)
4. Afghanistan(07 of11)
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In this Oct. 23, 2012 photo, Afghan girls share a joke in the center of Lashkar Gah, Helmand province, Afghanistan. In southern Helmand province, one of Afghanistanís deadliest battlefields, angry residents say 11 years of war has brought them widespread insecurity. (credit:AP Photo/Anja Niedringhaus)
3. Somalia(08 of11)
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This handout photo released by the African Union-United Nations Information Support Team shows on December 12, 2012 shows a Somali boy carries a tray nuts and snacks near a market place in Jowhar in Middle Shabelle region north of the capital Mogadishu on December 11, 2012. (credit:STUART PRICE/AFP/Getty Images)
2. Democratic Republic Of The Congo(09 of11)
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Members of Congolese president Joseph Kabila's Presidential guard stand in the rain outside the polling station where Kabila casts his ballot in the country's presidential election in Kinshasa, Democratic Republic of Congo, Monday Nov. 28, 2011. (credit:AP Photo/Jerome Delay)
1. Sudan(10 of11)
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Some 100 protesters from the nomadic Arab Misseriya tribe demonstrate in Khartoum on November 28, 2012, proclaiming the flashpoint Abyei region Sudanese territory, ahead of a deadline for Sudan and South Sudan to settle the area's status. (credit:ASHRAF SHAZLY/AFP/Getty Images)
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