Australian Couple Says They'll Get Divorced If Same-Sex Marriage Is Legalized

Couple Says They'll Get Divorced If Same-Sex Marriage Is Legalized
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A Christian couple in Australia has vowed to get divorced if marriage equality becomes legal.

In an op-ed for the Canberra CityNews, Nick Jensen wrote that he and his wife, Sarah, would, “as a matter of conscience, refuse to recognize the government’s regulation of marriage if its definition includes the solemnization of same sex couples.”

“Marriage is the union of a man and a woman before a community in the sight of God. And the marriage of any couple is important to God regardless of whether that couple recognizes God’s involvement or authority in it,” Jensen wrote.

Jensen and his wife have been married for 10 years and have children together. But according to him, the Australian government would essentially be nullifying their marriage contract if it chooses to legalize same-sex marriage.

“For us, fundamentally, when we got married we signed a contract with the state and that contract was around the current definition of marriage and all the things that comes with it. Man and woman for life, for the sake of children,” Jensen told Buzzfeed News. “If it came to be that the definition of the contract was changed, the contract is now null and void.”

The op-ed has triggered a wave of backlash on social media, as people accused both the writer and CityNews of homophobia.

But Jensen, who works for the Australian Christian Lobby’s Lachlan Macquarie Internship, insists that his position does not stem from bigotry.

“This has been a big decision for my wife and I. Some will accuse of us being bigoted or too hateful to share. But this couldn’t be further from our intentions,” he wrote in his op-ed. “The truth is, ‘marriage’ is simply too important. It is a sacred institution, ordained by God … Any attempt to change the definition of marriage by law is not something in which we are able to partake.”

The magazine has defended its decision to print the op-ed piece. Editor Ian Meikle told News.com.au that “the article does not reflect the opinion of the paper,” but does offer “an interesting angle” to the debate about same-sex marriage legalization.

The Australian parliament is set to vote on marriage equality legislation by year’s end. According to a recent Guardian Australia survey, politicians remain divided on the issue.

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Put a Ring on It: Why Marriage Equality Matters
A Family Portrait(01 of20)
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Mason Edwards-Stout, Kergan Edwards-Stout, Russ Noe, and Marcus Edwards-Stout.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Front Yard Ceremony(02 of20)
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The wedding party and guests gathered to honor the union on Saturday June 7, 2014. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
One of the Best Men Receives a Gift...(03 of20)
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Marcus Edwards-Stout, the couple's younger son, receives a gift from his dads. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
The Reading of Vows(04 of20)
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Marcus Edwards-Stout, Russ Noe, officiants Rev. Barbara Grear and Rev. Mike Holland, Kergan Edwards-Stout, Mason Edwards-Stout. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Commitment & Connection(05 of20)
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Two guests hold hands. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Communal Bouquet(06 of20)
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Upon entering, each guest was given a single flower. As part of the ceremony, each guest rose and placed their flower into a communal vase, forming a bouquet honoring community. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Surprise Song(07 of20)
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After reading his vows, the last of which is to always be surprising, Kergan Edwards-Stout surprised those gathered with a song sung in French, La Vie En Rose, as the wedding was French-themed. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Simple Gold Band(08 of20)
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Russ Noe and Kergan Edwards-Stout exchange rings.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
After 12 Years, Legally Married(09 of20)
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Russ Noe and Kergan Edwards-Stout, legally wed after a 12 year partnership. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Union Blessed(10 of20)
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Rev. Barbara Grear blesses the union of Russ Noe and Kergan Edwards-Stout. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
The Couple and Their Sons Celebrate(11 of20)
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Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Two Guests Exiting(12 of20)
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Following the ceremony, two guests exit to the backyard reception. Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Family Portraits(13 of20)
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Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
The Couple's Portrait(14 of20)
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Kergan Edwards-Stout and Russ Noe.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Family & Friends Celebrate(15 of20)
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The backyard celebration included French foods and song, speeches from guests, and a photo booth.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Backyard Celebration(16 of20)
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Family and friends gather to celebrate the union of Kergan Edwards-Stout and Russ Noe.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Listening to a Toast(17 of20)
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Kergan Edwards-Stout, Marcus Edwards-Stout, Russ Noe, and Mason Edwards-Stout listen to a guest's toast.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Surrounded by Friends(18 of20)
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The happy couple, Kergan Edwards-Stout and Russ Noe, surrounded by friends.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
Guests Pose with "Colette"(19 of20)
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Fun in the photo booth.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.
A Night to Remember(20 of20)
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Russ Noe and Kergan Edwards-Stout's wedding was French-themed, including a photo booth, where "Colette," a French supermodel, patiently posed with guests. The Eiffel Tower is in the background.Photography by Sara + Ryan, flowers by Untamed Designs, and event coordination by Bridal and Event Lounge.