6 Unexpected Reasons Why You're Angry

6 Unexpected Reasons Why You're Angry

By Jena Pincott

It's not just hunger, blues, fatigue and mild dehydration that make us so tetchy. These little-known rage-enhancers can, too.

1. You Snacked on Microwave Popcorn
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No matter what's irking you—your partner's tap-tap-tapping foot, a snarky comment, a printer jam—the wrong type of popcorn may play a role in turning annoyance into full-blown rage. Other culprits can include frozen pizza, crackers, canned frosting, coffee creamer…or anything else that contains high levels of trans-fatty acids (partially hydrogenated oils— see this list). There's a strong association between anger issues and the consumption of trans fats, claim researchers at the University of California at San Diego, who surveyed people's eating habits and moods. The theory is that trans fats may inhibit absorption of healthy omega-3 fats, which are known for tamping down hostile behaviors and making us feel calmer.
2. You Forgot Your Shades
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On the sunniest days, we squint, and squinting makes us angry, explains Daniele Marzoli, PhD, a psychologist at Italy's University of Chieti-Pescara who tracked people's emotions when the sun was either in their face or to their back. (The upshot: Squinters reported feeling 44 percent more agitated and aggressive.) Problem is, your screwed-up expression—forehead furrowed, eyes narrowed, mouth twisted—is essentially a frown. And because mood and facial muscles are linked, your face signals to your brain that you're irritated (even if weren't…initially). To make matters worse, the tetchiness flares up almost instantly, Marzoli explains. Luckily, this one has a simple, fast-acting and potentially elegant remedy: sunglasses.
3. You Took It Standing Up
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Or sitting down. Or in any other position in which you were vertical. Body posture affects emotions—and the neural activations associated with them, explains Eddie Harmon-Jones, PhD, a psychologist and an author of a study at Texas A&M University. When upright-positioned volunteers heard unfair, hurtful feedback about their personality and written work, their brain scans revealed more of a neural frenzy in a part of the brain associated with anger (the left prefrontal cortex), compared with those who heard the same criticism while lying on their backs or received neutral feedback while seated. Harmon-Jones recommends lying down (if possible) whenever irritation starts to bubble up. If your body is poised to lunge, you're going to react more strongly than if you're laid back (literally).
4. You Barely Lifted a Finger
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The less you work out, the more you'll get worked-up (especially if you're already short-tempered), found a small, preliminary study led by exercise scientist Nathaniel Thom, PhD, then at the University of Georgia. Thom provoked high-strung male volunteers by showing them, for instance, photos of soldiers abusing kids and children starving. As a result, the men felt angry, and their brain activity reflected it. Those instructed to ride a stationary bike for a half-hour afterward, however, were more even-keeled during a second viewing (the images still upset them, but their anger didn't increase), while those who had rested reported feeling more enraged. The theory: Even moderate exercise may protect against a build-up of anger because it boosts levels of the soothing neurotransmitter serotonin…which puts us in a calmer, more constructive mind-set than lazing around all day.
5. You Read the Comments
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Online rants and flame wars, though often entertaining, pose a problem: Innocent bystanders get burned. An experiment at the University of Wisconsin-Green Bay found that when people read fuming comments posted on websites (such as Justrage.com, “the internet anger sponge”), they inevitably felt more churlish and negative. Unfortunately, of all the emotions—joy, sadness and disgust included—it's anger that spreads fastest and most easily online, concluded Chinese researchers in a separate study that tracked 70 million tweets. That means if you read something explosive, chances are better than average that you'll not only feel the secondhand fury but also pass it on.
6. You're a Southpaw
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Lefties and ambidextrous types get angrier—and not necessarily because scissors, spiral notebooks and slanted brooms are designed for righties—suggests a study led by Ruth Propper, PhD, a psychologist at Merrimack College. Propper and her colleagues observed that there was a greater difference in activity between the left and right hemispheres of the brain in non-right-handed people. And the greater the imbalance, the angrier people were, Propper claims. Which means, at least in theory, that an affront that wouldn't unsettle a righty might make a lefty seethe.

Before You Go

8 Reasons You're Still Mad, By Amy Shearn
1. The Peanut Gallery Won't Shut Up(01 of08)
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Anyone who has lived past the age of 4 is well acquainted with the idea that Life Is Not Fair. And yet, when something annoying/sad/frustrating and, yes, completely unfair happens, inevitably someone says, “Oh, well, who says life is fair?” And you realize, as a fireball stokes in your chest, that it is not the unfairness of life but the random commentary that is eating at your soul. It’s just so unhelpful, this kind of toothless insight that is meant to allay the speaker’s discomfort rather than your own. We'd tell you it's just not fair, but... (credit:Thinkstock)
2. Even Soda Bottles Act Like Divas These Days(02 of08)
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When you call the cable company about the Internet connection that isn't working, customer service encourages you to solve the problem... by going online. Your new steak knife comes sealed in a blister pack that’s impossible to open without said steak knife. Why does everything have to be so complicated? It is called, in scientific circles, The Soda Bottle Law of the Universe: To make eating at your desk more tolerable, you get a fancy soda, and only once you’ve settled in with your lunch do you realize that it requires a bottle opener, as if it were a boutique beer. Your disproportionate surge of rage is completely understandable. Who keeps a bottle opener at her office? Who does that soda think it is? (credit:Thinkstock)
3. They Believed You When You Said, 'I'm Fine'(03 of08)
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Know this: There is a page on Facebook for "Saying 'I'm fine when I'm really not." It has more than 22,000 likes. You're not the only one. (credit:Thinkstock)
4. You Crossed It Off Your List(04 of08)
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So you’re finally taking the very-good-but-hard-to-follow advice to delegate responsibility instead of doing everything yourself while grumbling about how you have to do everything all the time. You ask an eager intern to create a slide for your upcoming presentation -- sure, it only saves you an hour, but you get to put it out of your mind. Done! Except the night before the presentation, you realize she never sent it to you and is nowhere to be found, so you still have to spend an hour on it, and now you have to blow off the friend you were going to see to get it done on time. Resume grumbling about how you have to do everything all the time. (credit:Thinkstock)
5. The 19th Lavender Twin Set(05 of08)
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Dear Mom,One of our greatest desires, as humans, is to be known. So it stings when, though I've refused since I was 3 years old, you still think you can convince me to wear pastels. Do you not understand that I didn't inherit your milky complexion, which glows in seafoam? Are you blind to how putrid I look in puce? Well, thanks anyway for the birthday present. Sigh. Love, Your Daughter, Whose Wardrobe Is and Forever Shall Be 90 Percent Earth Tones (credit:Thinkstock)
6. The Nanny Who Bailed(06 of08)
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I know someone who works full time, has a small baby, and had her beloved babysitter up and quit, with nary an explanation. It’s been months, but she still seems to be shaken up by the experience. And why not? It's unsettling when people disappear without giving a reason -- the cleaning lady, the math tutor, the every-Friday-for-two-months date. Sure, we all know everyone has a complicated life. And yet someone you trusted chose something else over you. It stings. Of course it does. But you can survive it. (credit:Thinkstock)
7. Your Dry Cleaner Still Can't Work Miracles(07 of08)
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Does anyone really know how dry cleaning works? The answer is no -- it’s just one of those mysteries of life. Or, at least, it is to me. So even though there is a small voice in my head whispering, "That’s wine AND chocolate AND blood on that camel-hair blazer, and nothing in the world is going to get that out," I believe the dry cleaner can fix it. And, $20 later...no. No, the dry cleaner can not perform magic. And I didn’t listen to my wise inner voice, and there goes my $20. Every. Time. (credit:Thinkstock)
8. The Coffee Canister Was There At The Wrong Time(08 of08)
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You slink into the kitchen in the morning, and you're tired but it’s time to be up, and you’re heavy with dread for the day ahead, and there is no coffee. You hold the empty canister in your hand for a moment before hurling it against the wall, startling the dog and also yourself. May I suggest something and then immediately duck for cover? Could it be that you are not actually mad about the lack of that precious brown dust? Could it be that you are storing a general anger -- at being overtired, at your too-busy life, at the irritating meeting you’re headed to -- in your fingertips? A thought: Apologize to the coffee canister (yes, it feels silly), and then apologize to the dog, and then apologize to yourself. And then: a big box of Dunkin Donuts coffee to share at the meeting. Peace and goodwill to all. (credit:Thinkstock)