Watch This Dad Break Down Why He Won't Call His Daughter A Princess

Don't call her "princess," call her "president."
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Carlos Andrés Gómez's daughter is not a princess.

In his poem, "If A Princess Tries To Kidnap Your Daughter," the spoken word poet speaks out against gendered expectations his daughter will have to face as she grows up. 

Standing in front of Yasmin Hernandez's vibrant "Soldaderas" mural in New York City's Spanish Harlem ahead of Father's Day, Gómez explained why he won't let society project its problematic understanding of womanhood on her.

"Princess pretty. Princess precious. Princess mixed girl..." he recited. "The word is dangerous and ubiquitous as a shaking chamber baptized by gunpowder."

Midway through the piece, Gómez changes his tone, insisting he has bigger dreams for his daughter. 

"Our daughter will be a neuroscientist, a biochemist who discovers the cure to progeria or ebola," he said. "Our daughter will shoot 90 percent at the free throw line and adore Sophocles, Audre Lorde and Mahmoud Darwish." 

Gómez wraps the poem with a poignant message about his daughter.  

"She is many things. She is everything, but one thing she will never be is a princess," he said. 

Hear Gómez's moving words in the video above. 

This video was produced by Kat Santiago, edited by Terence Krey and shot by Dan Fox, Ian MacInnes, Mike Caravella and JR Cronheim. 

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Great Quotes About Fatherhood
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“I believe that what we become depends on what our fathers teach us at odd moments, when they aren't trying to teach us. We are formed by little scraps of wisdom.” - Umberto Eco
(02 of21)
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"Above all, children need our unconditional love, whether they succeed or make mistakes; when life is easy and when life is tough." -President Obama
(03 of21)
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“When I was a boy of 14, my father was so ignorant I could hardly stand to have the old man around. But when I got to be 21, I was astonished at how much he had learned in seven years.” – Mark Twain
(04 of21)
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“The nature of impending fatherhood is that you are doing something that you’re unqualified to do, and then you become qualified while doing it.” – John Green
(05 of21)
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"You fathers will understand. You have a little girl. She looks up to you. You're her oracle. You're her hero." -Stanley T. Banks, Father of the Bride
(06 of21)
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"Do I want to be a hero to my son? No. I would like to be a very real human being. That's hard enough." -Robert Downey Jr.
(07 of21)
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“It doesn’t matter who my father was; it matters who I remember he was.” — Anne Sexton
(08 of21)
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"I thought I would be more inspired to have all these new feelings to talk about, but I really just want to hang out with my daughter." Jay-Z
(09 of21)
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“We never know the love of a parent till we become parents ourselves.” - Henry Ward Beecher
(10 of21)
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“By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he’s wrong.” - Charles Wadsworth
(11 of21)
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"Having a staring contest with a newborn is one of the weirdest things you will ever do. And it is highly recommended." -Ross McCammon
(12 of21)
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“I think once I fail enough as a dad, I'll be looking for help wherever I can get it. I just need enough time to screw things up and then I'll start looking to TV dads for advice.” - Ty Burrell
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"The reward of child rearing is spending the rest of your life proudly knowing this person you helped guide. Let him be himself." -Mike Sager
(14 of21)
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"I want my son to wear a helmet 24 hours a day." - Will Arnett
(15 of21)
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"This is my most important role. If I fail at this, I fail at everything." -Mark Wahlberg
(16 of21)
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"It is admirable for a man to take his son fishing, but there is a special place in heaven for the father who takes his daughter shopping."- John Sinor
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“I have found the best way to give advice to your children is to find out what they want and then advise them to do it.” – Harry S. Truman
(18 of21)
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"It is much easier to become a father than to be one." -Kent Nerburn, Letters to My Son: Reflections on Becoming a Man
(19 of21)
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"Lately all my friends are worried that they're turning into their fathers. I'm worried that I'm not." -Dan Zevin
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"Few sons are like their fathers - many are worse, few better." -Homer, The Odyssey
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"It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived. "-Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird