You're Bound To Meet One Of These Guys Dating In Your 20's

Oh, my. Dating in your 20’s. It’s the definition of a roller coaster ride; its emotional, hilarious, devestating, and confusing all at the same time. But if you’re playing this dating game, these are some of the guys you’re bound to encounter.

Mr. Super Sweet Guy

This doesn’t apply for all girls, some girls LOVE the super nice guy. But some girls can find this type overbearing and almost annoying. Don’t get me wrong, this guy is a good one to meet. He will reassure you through all the douche bags, that there are still good guys out there. He will treat you like the princess you deserve to be treated like. But sometimes, that’s not enough. Sometimes you will feel like something is missing with this guy. Just because he’s a good guy, doesn’t mean he’s your good guy. I know you’re afraid to hurt his feelings, but it’s better than giving him false hope. Break the news to him and move on.

Mr. Player

UGH, this guy is THE WORST! Sometimes you meet this guy knowing he’s a player, but sometimes you find it out later down the road. There are always signs with this guy, though. If things seem too good to be true, dig a little deeper and pay attention. Also, RED FLAG OF THE CENTURY!! If he leaves someone for you, he will eventually leave you for someone else. It’s a never ending cycle with Mr. Player. Don’t waste your time trying to change him, because you wont. Instead what you should do is blow this guy off, knock him off of his pedestal, it’ll be good for him.

Mr. Bad Boy

I don’t know why, but girls in their 20s are drawn to this guy. He has this demenor about him that just brings the ladies in. He’s the guy that you know deep down isn’t going to workout but you’re going to try until you’re left with no option but to give up.

Mr. Almost

You never officially dated this guy, but in hind sight, you basically were. He held all the duties of a boyfriend, without the title. You really liked him, but for whatever reason you and Mr. Almost didn’t work out. For awhile you’ll always wonder what could have been. But you shouldn’t spend too much time worrying over him. “What is meant to be, will always find a way”

Mr. Party Boy

Everyone knows that this guy never fails to show you a good time. Which is great and all, don’t get me wrong. But since he’s into the party scene, that means he’s constantly surrounded by women, and he loves it. The last thing on this guys minds is a girlfriend or commitment. So if you’re looking for a boyfriend, walk away. If you’re looking for someone to tag along to music festivals with you, you’ve found your match. (Just don’t be surprised when he finds another girl there, too)

Mr. Smooth Talker

He knows all the right things to say and exactly when to say them. His words will give you butterflies. But untill you see actual actions to back up his words, try not to take anything he says to heart. I suggest staying friends with this guy. He can give you compliments when you need the boost, but you’ll never need to expect anything more than just that.

Mr. Hot Stuff

The one that everyone wants to be with (and most of them already have) He’s fun, and without a doubt a HOTTIE. Everyone knows that, and so does he. When you look at him, you’ll want him, but don’t let lust get the best of you. Because I hate to break it to you, but most of the time you’re just another girl on his list. And if he’s more concerned about fitting the gym into his day rather than time with you... GOODBYE!

Mr. I’ve Always Loved You

He has been clear with his feelings from the start, and sometimes it can freak a girl out. 99% of the time, your mom LOVES this guy. She will constantly be asking “how is so & so?!” He is a good guy, but he’s not your guy. Your mama isn’t dating him, you are.

Mr. Best Friend

He’s your favorite dude. He knows almost all of your secrets and always gives you advice when you’re having trouble with a guy. Sometimes you might consider changing his title from “best friend” to “boyfriend”. I mean he already knows you, and you guys get along very well. They say your boyfriend should be your best friend, right? Well yes, but no. Keep your best friend, you need him, and guy best friends are hard to come by. Don’t complicate things by adding romanace into the mix, you will more than likely lose him.

Mr. Friends With Benefits

This one is close to your best friend, just add the benefits. You are really comfortable with this guy. You two spend most of your time eating pizza, and watching bad tv. When you’re single, it’s not a bad relationship to have; it’s fun and convienent. Just make sure you’re both clear with your intentions from the start and whatever you do... don’t catch feelings, because then it’s ruined.

Last but not least...

Mr. Right

One day this guy will finally walk into your life. He will be compasionate, outgoing, kind, honest, and oh so handsome. He will never want to change you, and he will accept you for everything that you are and more. This man will be the man of your dreams, and truly be everything you’ve always dreamed of. When you meet him, it will all make sense. And all these Mr. Wrongs will make Mr. Right that much better.

For now, enjoy your 20’s. Enjoy being single, and all the perks that come with it. One day you’ll be married with kids, reminiscing on these crazy days.