(1) Bar where everybody knows your name (01 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Youtube.com)
(1) Friend with a cute baby(02 of32)
Open Image Modalwho we can hang out with/ abandon on a whim (at least until we’re ready for something more committal) (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="25" data-vars-position-in-unit="29">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/28406419@N07/8157863689" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="johnandalyna" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/28406419@N07/8157863689" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="26" data-vars-position-in-unit="30">johnandalyna</a>)
(1) Family who is supportive from a comfortable distance(03 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="23" data-vars-position-in-unit="27">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/54547540@N00/8158069156" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="I Should Be Folding Laundry" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/54547540@N00/8158069156" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="24" data-vars-position-in-unit="28">I Should Be Folding Laundry</a>)
(1+) Overseas trips(04 of32)
Open Image Modalto help us forget/remember how insignificant our slice of the world is (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="21" data-vars-position-in-unit="25">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/59067443@N08/8189519098" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="masterbutler" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/59067443@N08/8189519098" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="22" data-vars-position-in-unit="26">masterbutler</a>)
(1) Millionaire mentor (05 of32)
Open Image Modalwho feels like paying off our student loans “just because” (credit:Getty Images)
(3+) 30-something friends (06 of32)
Open Image Modalto ease our anxieties about aging, remind us that we’re overreacting about almost everything, etc. (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="19" data-vars-position-in-unit="23">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/13907834@N00/8186333445" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="MSVG" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/13907834@N00/8186333445" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="20" data-vars-position-in-unit="24">MSVG</a>)
(Infinity) Politicians to stay out of our bedrooms, doctor’s offices, churches, etc. (07 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Getty Images)
(1) Pet that doesn’t piss or make noise when it isn’t supposed to (08 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Shutterstock)
(1) Rent-controlled apartment(09 of32)
Open Image ModalCarrie Bradshaw's Porch (credit:WikiMedia:)
(1) Friend whose swanky job benefits everyone they know(10 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="17" data-vars-position-in-unit="21">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/38144472@N04/8167616977" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="US Mission Canada" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/38144472@N04/8167616977" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="18" data-vars-position-in-unit="22">US Mission Canada</a>)
(1) Significant other who has their own friends, interests, and life (11 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="15" data-vars-position-in-unit="19">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/20777644@N05/8159281658" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="amslerPIX" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/20777644@N05/8159281658" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="16" data-vars-position-in-unit="20">amslerPIX</a>)
(1) Job that offers health insurance (12 of32)
Open Image Modaland doesn’t make us want to go outside and break copy machines with baseball bats (credit:Shutterstock)
(1) Friend with a car (obviously)(13 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Shutterstock)
(Infinity) People who find us attractive, inside and out (14 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Shutterstock)
(1) Washer/ dryer combo — c’mon. Please?(15 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="13" data-vars-position-in-unit="17">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/49503000362@N01/59816080" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="hitormiss" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/49503000362@N01/59816080" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="14" data-vars-position-in-unit="18">hitormiss</a>)
(1) Landlord who... (16 of32)
Open Image Modalcan be reached without having to resort to carrier pigeon or smoke signals (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="11" data-vars-position-in-unit="15">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/32426344@N00/7126111179" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="_gee_" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/32426344@N00/7126111179" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="12" data-vars-position-in-unit="16">_gee_</a>)
(1) Friend to teach us (17 of32)
Open Image Modalhow to download and then watch torrents (seriously you guys, it’s not intuitive) (credit:Shutterstock)
(Infinity) Marathons of our favorite TV show when it’s cold outside (18 of32)
Open Image Modal(Infinity) Marathons of our favorite TV show when it’s cold outside (credit:Getty Images)
(1+) Person who offers to come over with soup when we’re sick (19 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="9" data-vars-position-in-unit="13">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/61192399@N04/8188784466" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="whatkatiesbaking.com" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/61192399@N04/8188784466" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="10" data-vars-position-in-unit="14">whatkatiesbaking.com</a>)
(1) Change of address (20 of32)
Open Image Modalthat gets our alma mater, our exes, and our bill collectors off our backs (credit:Getty Images)
(2) Roommates who feel like family (except for the sharing food part) (21 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Shutterstock)
(2) Minor league crushes who...(22 of32)
Open Image Modal will never come to fruition because did we mention that we have (1) significant other who has their own friends, interests, and life? (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="7" data-vars-position-in-unit="11">Flickr</a>:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/62794868@N00/8095490512" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="hueytaxi" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/photos/62794868@N00/8095490512" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="8" data-vars-position-in-unit="12">hueytaxi</a>)
(1) Outfit that makes our body look halfway normal (23 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Getty Images)
(3) Friends who...(24 of32)
Open Image Modalcontinue to send us new music long after we’ve given up on trying to figure that out for ourselves (credit:Shutterstock)
(1) Friend who’s always on Gchat(25 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:Shutterstock)
(1) Place to spend the holidays, when our families live too far way (26 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/SEehP-R_MA/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="dr_goodman via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/SEehP-R_MA/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="6" data-vars-position-in-unit="10">dr_goodman via Instagram</a>)
(Infinity) Good books to read(27 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/SEV8EBsJp2/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="ipay2play via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/SEV8EBsJp2/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="5" data-vars-position-in-unit="9">ipay2play via Instagram</a>)
(3) Restaurant owners that know us on a first-name basis (28 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/Rs3vkQyVev/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="_ericovitella_ via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/Rs3vkQyVev/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="4" data-vars-position-in-unit="8">_ericovitella_ via Instagram</a>)
(1+) Sense of purpose (29 of32)
Open Image Modalto help us feel like we’re not just alive and taking up space (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/SDplSpGdPa/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="zipzapzoomx via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/SDplSpGdPa/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="3" data-vars-position-in-unit="7">zipzapzoomx via Instagram</a>)
(1) Christmas bonus from our cool, health-insuranced job (30 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/SDZ2yJze6y/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="mca_mattyc61093 via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/SDZ2yJze6y/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="2" data-vars-position-in-unit="6">mca_mattyc61093 via Instagram</a>)
(10+) People to show up to our birthday parties (31 of32)
Open Image Modal (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/SEcwM7GkHT/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="thebo55man via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/SEcwM7GkHT/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="1" data-vars-position-in-unit="5">thebo55man via Instagram</a>)
(1) Reality check: (32 of32)
Open Image Modalif we have even one of these things, we’re doing pretty damn well (credit:<a target="_blank" href="http://instagr.am/p/SEbWVrQsWw/" role="link" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="the_name_is_jade_ via Instagram" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bae3fc7e4b022a916c8fcf9" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://instagr.am/p/SEbWVrQsWw/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="0" data-vars-position-in-unit="4">the_name_is_jade_ via Instagram</a>)