Teens With Tattoos: Students, Parents, And Teachers Open Up About Getting Inked

What's It ACTUALLY Like To Get A Tattoo? Teens Share True Stories
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This is a teen-written article from The Communicator, the student-run print and online newspaper of Community High School in Ann Arbor, Michigan.

A life-long mark is inserted through tiny pricks into the skin’s top layer. A hand-held machine acting just like a sewing machine pierces the skin repeatedly, and with every insertion, a scar appears. For a collection of students and staff at Community High School, their skin has been decorated by colorful images, some hidden, others in the open -- a perpetual drawing -- a tattoo.

Alia Persico-Shammas, Student

A small boat holds a young girl sitting delicately on the edge. Since age 15, CHS senior Alia Persico-Shammas’s skin has been garnished with this image on her body. That young girl on the boat is her mother as a teenager. When Persico-Shammas was 13, her mother died of cancer, and on the second anniversary of her mother’s death, her mother’s picture was permanently inked onto her side. “I had just been thinking about it for a very long time and I just wanted to do something for her but also kind of really for me, to solidify that part of my life because I feel like when something happens like that, it is hard to believe it is real, so it makes it real for me and okay. I don’t really want to remember my mom as sick as she was when she died; I want to remember her like the person she was. She was a really amazing person,” said Persico-Shammas. She explained that in just that single tattoo, so many of her mother’s characteristics that she adored, such as her wisdom, beauty, and desire for adventure, are visible.

Hannah Lehker, Student

The peony represents passion and intensity; the peony bud is for a pleasant future; vines mean strength and connection to self and others. The dragonfly with a bold shadow is finding balance. CHS Junior Hannah Lehker recently got tattooed in early October of this year. Lehker’s entire shoulder is covered in design. As she finally reached the legal age of 16 to get inked, Lehker jumped right on the opportunity. “I love it and wouldn’t change any of it but some people can’t believe it’s real and like to scratch it,” said Lehker. Her parents were more then fine with the idea as well. “My mom even came with me and got something done too,” she said.

Liz Stern, Teacher

There are three small dots, two on her waist and one in the center of her body. She had breast cancer. CHS teacher Liz Stern’s story is different than most. Three years ago, for 30 consecutive days, Stern went to the hospital. She had to be perfectly aligned to the machine to make sure the radiation would miss her vital organs and target the cancer; the most efficient way to secure the place was to tattoo the location. “I didn’t know that they were going to do that. I was just kind of lying there and they have this bottle of ink and they were like ‘Oh it won’t hurt, we just need to make markers,’” said Stern.

The dots, although small, are persistent reminders of what Stern had to experience. “I think that [radiation] is definitely something to go through and you know it’s not an easy thing, so I think when you get on the other side of it, and three… five… 10 years out; you’re like this [tattoo] is pretty cool, I’m glad that it is over,” she said.

Kevin Davis, Community Assistant

A bear claw, a lizard, and Mighty Mouse. Kevin Davis, Community Assistant at CHS, currently has nine tattoos and those are just three of them. Davis, like Persico-Shammas, received his first tattoo when he was 15, and has continued to add to his collection.

For most of Davis’s tattoos, it is more about the aesthetics than the meanings. Most of his recent tattoos have been designed by CHS students. “I usually find a nice art student and have them design one for me. I haven’t had a specific connection to the student but I see some of their art and ask if they want to design one for me,” said Davis.

With the addition of the CHS students’ artwork, Davis’s potpourri of tattoos is growing and addiction is one of the reasons why. “If I wasn’t addicted to them, I wouldn’t have as many as I have. I have tried to stop, a long time before my last four. It is an expensive habit and you just have to find the right design and say ‘Okay, yeah, I want this permanent,’” said Davis.

The permanent aspect of tattoos does not bother Davis. “If I assumed that I could wash them off, I would never get them. They are a part of me now and I enjoy expressing a part of me.”

Tattoo Removal

According to Teri McHenry, a Registered Nurse at a dermatologist’s office, tattoos don’t have to be permanent. It is possible to “wash” them off -- with lots of money, time, and possible side effects. McHenry says that her patients describe the procedure as “Extremely painful and more painful than getting the tattoo itself. They say it feels like getting hot oil splattered on them, and they can’t get away.”

The pain also costs a lot of money. The removal of an image tends to be almost double the cost of the tattoo application. “The removal for a 2”x2” tattoo is $99 per treatment and people can need between five to 15 treatments. You can do the math,” said McHenry.

Although side effects of the treatment that McHenry performs are easy to avoid, if appropriate measures are not taken to avoid them, they can be painful. “In one [extreme] case, a patient popped his blister with something unsanitary and didn’t use an antibiotic ointment as follow-up-care and he ended up with sepsis, a blood infection, which was treated in the hospital with IV antibiotics,” said McHenry. McHenry said that strong allergic reactions are also possible, as well as an internal itching feeling.

Even with some pitfalls, there are also advantages to getting the tattoo removed. “People’s self-esteem and confidence is regained. They can live their life now as if that regrettable moment of getting the tattoo never happened. Every patient that starts this journey of removing their unwanted tattoo, wants it off yesterday, they can’t wait until it is gone. This is when I remind them to have patience, their tattoo was put on to be permanent, and slowly we will get it off,” said McHenry.

Parent Perspective

But for Matthew Graff, CHS parent, he hopes his children will not have to worry having to get a tattoo removed. “While I do appreciate the artistry and the beauty of many forms of body art, my biggest concern is that I have seen fashions change. I would not want my own kids to make a choice based on a current trend that locks them into this moment,” said Graff.

The past also holds a concerning effect on why Graff has chosen to not get a tattoo. “There is a troubling echo of the Holocaust years, when many of my own family members were tattooed by the Nazis, in part as a deliberate desecration to religious persons. We went through that dark time and now our children willingly choose these marks -- sort of weird,” said Graff. Although Graff believes that if his children do decide to ink themselves after age 18, he won’t admire their choices but respect them enough to keep on loving them.

Love is evident through the deliberate decisions to get a tattoo. Whether it be for a lost loved one or a personal story, a tattoo creates a visual imprint that will never be forgotten. “I think tattoos are just really really beautiful. It is just a really cool way to express yourself,” concluded Persico-Shammas.

Before You Go

10 Teen Celebs With Tattoos
Justin Bieber(01 of12)
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Justin Bieber recently showed of his brand-new tattoo on the beach in Malibu. To accompany the small bird on his hip and word "Jesus" written on his torso, the Biebs now has a large face of Jesus tattooed on his left calf.
Selena Gomez (02 of12)
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Following Taylor Swift's temporary tattoo, Selena Gomez had everyone wondering whether or not she had actually gotten inked when the name of her boyfriend, Justin Bieber, was written on her wrist at a concert. While it may not be as cool or edgy as a real tattoo, at least she only has to wash her hands and bust out the sharpie if she gets a new boyfriend.
Taylor Swift (03 of12)
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If you're a Taylor Swift fan, you may have noticed her tradition of writing song lyrics down her arm for every show. At her recent concert at Madison Square Garden, Taylor sported the lyrics "Bring on all the pretenders. One day we will be remembered," from the song "Long Live" off her most recent album, Speak Now. (credit:AP)
Miley Cyrus (04 of12)
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Miley Cyrus has a total of nine tattoos! The Hannah Montana star has "Just Breathe" on her chest, "Love" in her ear, a dream-catcher on her side, and an anchor on her wrist as well as an equal sign, a peace symbol, a cross, a heart, and the word "karma" on her right hand. The tattoo-obsessed star has even tried to get her BFF Taylor Swift to get matching ink guitars (so far it's a no-go!).
Vanessa Hudgens (05 of12)
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In addition to the symbol for "Om" that Vanessa Hudgens has tattooed on the back of each hand, her first tattoo was a butterfly on her neck. Vanessa's choice wasn't random -- in fact, the name "Vanessa" actually means butterfly in Latin.
Ashley Tisdale (06 of12)
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Ashley Tisdale has the phrase "Jamais seule" (French for "Never Alone") tattooed onto the side her left foot. That isn't her first ink, though -- the actress also has "Fearless" on her wrist and "Believe" down her back because her mom always told her to believe.
Demi Lovato(07 of12)
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For her first tattoo Demi Lovato chose to get the words "You Make Me Beautiful" inked onto the side of her rib cage. The phrase is from "Beautiful" by Bethany Dillon, a song which the Disney actress said helped her get through a difficult time in her life. Demi also has "Stay Strong" tattooed onto the inside of her wrists, as well as red lips, a turquoise feather behind her left ear, and a black cross on the side of her right hand.
Hayden Panettiere(08 of12)
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Hayden Panettiere's "Vivere senza rimipianti" tattoo, which means "To live without regrets" in Italian, goes down the left side of her back. Unfortunately, the Heroes star didn't spell-check because the the tat is actually misspelled!
Lea Michele(09 of12)
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Lea Michelle got matching "Imagine" tattoos with Glee castmates Jenna Ushkowitz and Kevin McHaleon, which is very appropriate for the singing co-stars. On the same night, Lea got another tattoo to commemorate the final season of the show, a gold star to represent her Glee character. Lea also has other tattoos, including "I Believe" on her wrist for a song she sang in the Broadway musical Spring Awakening, a blue butterfly on her right foot, another butterfly on her back, a bird on her hip, two musical notes from Queen's "Bohemian Rhapsody" on her shoulder, and a tattoo on her thigh that she got in memory of her grandfather. (credit:Jason Merritt, Getty Images)
Lindsay Lohan(10 of12)
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Lindsay Lohan tattooed Billy Joel lyrics on her side, which read: "Clear as a crystal, sharp as a knife I feel like I'm in the prime of my life." Lindsay also has a Marilyn Monroe tat that she got last year of the quote, "Everyone's a star and deserves the right to twinkle." (credit:Venturelli / Getty Images for amfAR)
Taylor Momsen(11 of12)
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Unlike many of her fellow teen celebs, Taylor Momsen only has one tattoo. Taylor's tat is a small star on her side -- we would have expected more, given her bold fashion sense. (credit:Robert Marquardt, Getty Images)
Megan Fox(12 of12)
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Megan Fox has nine tattoos that are known of. Well, the count is actually down to seven, if you're not including the Marilyn Monroe tattoo the actress recently decided to get removed because she no longer admires the late icon who she once admired. Her remaining tats are the Shakespeare phrase "We will all laugh at gilded butterflies" on her right upper back as well as another phrase written in Old English font on her side, a a quote from German philosopher Friedrich Nietzsche on her other side, a moon and star above her ankle, the first name of her now-husband and former 90210 star Brian Austin Green, a Yin-Yang symbol on the inside of her left wrist, and the Chinese character for strength on the back of her neck. (credit:Alberto E. Rodriguez, Getty Images)