A Good Friend(01 of44)
Open Image ModalBetter yet -- a few: one who makes you laugh, one who listens without judgment and one who challenges you. (credit:Alamy)
A Good Book...(02 of44)
Open Image Modal...always on hand to return to. (credit:Alamy)
At Least One Great Love Of Her Life...(03 of44)
Open Image Modal...and preferably more than one. Letting go of the idea that there is a "one and only" person out there for you is a sign of maturity. By opening your mind and your heart to the possibility -- the reality -- that you can fall in love again, you remove a big obstacle to happiness. (credit:Alamy)
A Go-To Purse... (04 of44)
Open Image Modal...that's never out of style. (credit:Alamy)
Great Black Boots...(05 of44)
Open Image Modal...to go with everything. (credit:Alamy)
A Comfortable Bed and Bedding(06 of44)
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A Good Vibrator(07 of44)
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A Treasured Hobby(08 of44)
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A Secret Crush (09 of44)
Open Image Modal (credit:Getty)
A Regular Exercise Routine...(10 of44)
Open Image Modal...ideally one that involves friends. (credit:Alamy)
At Least One Amazing Travel Experience(11 of44)
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The Grace To Accept A Compliment(12 of44)
Open Image Modal (credit:Alamy)
A Recognition Of Your Strengths...(13 of44)
Open Image Modal...and how to use them. (credit:Alamy)
A Handle On Your Buttons...(14 of44)
Open Image Modal...and how to deactivate them. (credit:Alamy)
An Appreciation That Gratitude Is The Basis For A Happy Life(15 of44)
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The Experience To Know That Loving Is An Act Of Giving, Not Receiving(16 of44)
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The Understanding That Money Is Not Happiness, Power Or Security...(17 of44)
Open Image Modal...but just a tool to help you get the things you value; and that you can often get many of them without a lot of money. (credit:Alamy)
A Love Of Life-Long Learning(18 of44)
Open Image ModalLife ends when your mind shuts down, not when your body fails you. (credit:Alamy)
The Smarts Not To Be A Victim(19 of44)
Open Image ModalSelf-sufficiency is part of wholeness. (credit:Alamy)
The Awareness That The Grass Is NEVER Greener On The Other Side Of The Fence(20 of44)
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The Ability To Laugh At Yourself...(21 of44)
Open Image Modal...and with others. A sense of humor is a great tonic for the mind and soul. (credit:Alamy)
Fearlessness! (22 of44)
Open Image ModalWith decades of experience under your belt, you know how to move forward with courage and confidence. (credit:Alamy)
Belief In, And Support Of, A Cause Higher Than Oneself(23 of44)
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A Quiet, Verdant Place... (24 of44)
Open Image Modal...to disappear and appreciate Mother Nature. (credit:Alamy)
Eight Hours Of Sleep On A Regular Basis!(25 of44)
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"That You Really Didn't Have To Put Up With All That Bs...(26 of44)
Open Image Modal...and you are perfect just the way you are." --Esther Petrilli-Massey (credit:Alamy)
"Hopefully A Wonderful Relationship...(27 of44)
Open Image Modal...and 'true' self confidence and self esteem." --David M. Logan (credit:Alamy)
"All Of The 'Stuff' Doesn't Matter."(28 of44)
Open Image Modal"The big house you wanted...well, as you get older it gets empty. Then you want to downsize and purge the stuff!" --Patti McGee Thompson (credit:Alamy)
"Know That Spark Inside That Connects You To What Really Matters."(29 of44)
Open Image Modal"If you let it take the lead, you'll deepen toward more honesty, creativity, meaning, purpose and joy." --Christine Castigliano (credit:Alamy)
"Their Own Bank Account"(30 of44)
Open Image Modal--Kathy Abriola (credit:Alamy)
"That Beauty Is Not One Size Fits All!"(31 of44)
Open Image Modal--Patricia Crisafulli, Huff Post Blogger (credit:Courtesy of Patricia Crisafulli)
"The Ability To Say 'No' Without Guilt."(32 of44)
Open Image Modal--Pam Darville (credit:Alamy)
"Successful Adult Children Who Do Not Live At Home."(33 of44)
Open Image Modal--Pam Darville (credit:Alamy)
"An Expensive Piece Of Jewelry That Was Purchased By Herself."(34 of44)
Open Image Modal"A really good sex life with a least one partner (past/present) a knowledege that info. constantly changes and we have to keep moving with it." --Linda (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr:" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="10" data-vars-position-in-unit="11">Flickr:</a><a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/mauroescritor/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name=" Mauro Cateb" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/people/mauroescritor/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="11" data-vars-position-in-unit="12"> Mauro Cateb</a>)
"Have The Courage To Stand Up For What You Believe In Without Fear Or Apology."(35 of44)
Open Image Modal--Jennifer (credit:Alamy)
"A Relationship With The God Of The Universe."(36 of44)
Open Image Modal--Cheryl Meglio (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr:" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="8" data-vars-position-in-unit="9">Flickr:</a><a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/jessebezz/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name=" jessebezz" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/people/jessebezz/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="9" data-vars-position-in-unit="10"> jessebezz</a>)
"Reconciliation With 'MOM' Whether She Is Alive Or Deceased."(37 of44)
Open Image Modal--Cathy (credit:Alamy)
"What Other People Think Of You Is None Of Your Business!"(38 of44)
Open Image Modal--Irene Dittrich (credit:Alamy)
'Don't Sweat The Small Stuff', Don't 'Spin Your Wheels' Over The Insignificant....(39 of44)
Open Image Modal"The ability to prioritize what is important, will truly impact your life, or has significant negative consequences vs what is just an 'issue' that gets under your skin, or a perceived problem that is more trouble than it truly is worth. We often tend to get wound-up about things that really aren't as important as we think they are. If we stop and think---'Will this truly have a positive or negative effect on my life (or others'), or is it just something that is bugging me and I'm spinning my wheels trying to deal with it?'" --Chris (credit:Alamy)
"Her Own Income."(40 of44)
Open Image Modal--Geri Brin (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr:" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="6" data-vars-position-in-unit="7">Flickr:</a><a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/stevendepolo/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name=" stevendepolo" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/people/stevendepolo/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="7" data-vars-position-in-unit="8"> stevendepolo</a>)
"How To Keep Her Heart Healthy."(41 of44)
Open Image Modal--Geri Brin (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr:" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="4" data-vars-position-in-unit="5">Flickr:</a><a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/pmo/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name=" pmo" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/people/pmo/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="5" data-vars-position-in-unit="6"> pmo</a>)
"Having The Confidence To Take Your Own Self Out To Dinner...(42 of44)
Open Image Modal...when no one is available to go with you." --"Lucy and Ethel" (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr:" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="2" data-vars-position-in-unit="3">Flickr:</a><a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/amagill/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name=" AMagill" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/people/amagill/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="3" data-vars-position-in-unit="4"> AMagill</a>)
"By 50 A Woman Should Take A No Guilt Day At Home In Her Jammies Whenever She Needs One."(43 of44)
Open Image Modal--jbeebe92 (credit:Alamy)
"Regularly Scheduled Manicures, Pedicures And Fresh Flower Deliveries." (44 of44)
Open Image Modal--Anne Marshall (credit:<a href="http://www.flickr.com/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name="Flickr:" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="0" data-vars-position-in-unit="1">Flickr:</a><a href="http://www.flickr.com/people/sskennel/" role="link" rel="nofollow" class=" js-entry-link cet-external-link" data-vars-item-name=" sskennel" data-vars-item-type="text" data-vars-unit-name="5bb66c5de4b0527153099e83" data-vars-unit-type="buzz_body" data-vars-target-content-id="http://www.flickr.com/people/sskennel/" data-vars-target-content-type="url" data-vars-type="web_external_link" data-vars-subunit-name="before_you_go_slideshow" data-vars-subunit-type="component" data-vars-position-in-subunit="1" data-vars-position-in-unit="2"> sskennel</a>)