What It's Like To Be Raised Unapologetically Black And Mexican

This abuelita won't apologize for her Blaxican kids.

“I am Black, I am Mexican. The black gold of the sun and the descendant of the feathered serpent. I am her grandson, and she is my grandmother.”

Those are the first words Rush Davis says in We are mitú’s latest video “An ode to being Blaxican.” In the mini-doc, the California-baed artist discusses his identity and his grandmother, Dolores Morado, talks about what it was like to marry a black man and raise kids who are both Black and Mexican.

“It’s hard raising mixed kids,” Morado says in the video. “You try to show them, you know, they’re no different than anybody else, but you have people that don’t see it like that.” 

In the video, Davis opened up about the difficulties that come with growing up caught between two identities. His grandmother also discussed the criticism she faced for marrying and having children with a black man.  

“[My aunt] came over and she said that I was going to have to be strong in order to be able to raise them, but people were gonna talk about them,” Morado said. “And then I said to her, ‘And they can kiss my ass then’...I figure like this, any kid I got if God didn’t want me to have that baby, I wouldn’t have it. And he allowed me to have them, and they’re mine.” 

Mexico recognized it’s 1.38 million Afro-Mexican for the first time in a national survey in January. The “black” racial category is expected to debut in the 2020 national census. 

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9 Famous Afro-Latinos Open Up About Being Black And Latino
Gina Torres(01 of09)
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In NBC Universo's "Black and Latino" documentary, the "Suits" star explained that casting directors wouldn't consider her for Latina roles because of her appearance.

"There are so many of us out there," she told Latina magazine in 2013. "And part of it is, we’re undercover. They don’t know, and if we stood and said, 'that’s it, I’m not going do any roles that are not Latina,' we would not work. I don’t feel like I’m living a lie, because the fact is the world sees me as an African American woman unless they ask the question. Therefore my experience in the world, outside of my family, is that of an African American woman."
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Laz Alonso(02 of09)
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Alonso spoke about embracing his Afro-Latino roots in the NBC Universo documentary "Black and Latino." But the "The Mysteries of Laura" actor also said casting directors haven't always understood his identity.

"I identify with my culture more so than a lot of the guys that I’ve lost roles to, but I just don’t look as Latin as they do," Alonso said.
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Lauren Vélez(03 of09)
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The former "Dexter" star told The Huffington Post in 2012 her Afro-Latino identity wasn't embraced when she was first starting off in Hollywood. (credit:Getty)
Christina Milian(04 of09)
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As a singer and actress, the "Grandfathered" actress said she’s faced challenges due to her Afro-Latino identity during a HuffPost Live interview in October.

"We [Latinos are] all different, but you have to accept our differences," Milian said. "As far as Afro-Cuban [goes], I'm finding more and more that there's people opening their eyes to seeing that. Latinos come in all colors, all shades even in one family….but we’re still Latino, that doesn’t change a damn thing."
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Tatyana Ali(05 of09)
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The former "Fresh Prince of Bel-Air"actress, of Panamanian descent, discussed the complexities of her identity and how "people usually identify being Latino with being Mexican" in NBC Universo's "Black and Latino" documentary. (credit:Getty)
Soledad O'Brien(06 of09)
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As part of her CNN documentary "Who Is Black in America?," the journalist said her racial and ethnic background has been questioned in the context of her work.

"My mother would say, 'Do not let anybody tell you you’re not black. Do not let anybody tell you you’re not Latina,'" she added. "And I remember thinking her comments were so weird, like 'What is she talking about?'"
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La La Anthony(07 of09)
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In a personal essay for Latina magazine in 2011, the "Power" actress described the pushback she's received over her Black and Latina identity.

"As I start to get my feet wet in Hollywood, I already know that there are certain parts I won’t even be considered for," Anthony wrote. "The character can be Puerto Rican and speak Spanish just like me, but Hollywood defines Latina as Jennifer Lopez and Sofia Vergara. As beautiful as they are, we’re not all one race in Latin America. But I don’t go to auditions so that I can give history lessons to film executives."
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Selenis Leyva(08 of09)
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The "Orange is the New Black" star gave a passionate account of remaining proud of her roots despite coming across casting directors who’ve lacked tact when discussing her identity during P&G Orgullosa’s Nueva Latinas Living Fabulosa forum last year.

“The reality is that yes it was hard. Did I ever feel like I didn’t want to be Afro-Latina? Absolutely not,” Leyva said during the event. “We come in so many wonderful shades and body types...So whoever said I wasn’t Latina enough, suck it!”
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Judy Reyes(09 of09)
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In her interview with NBC Universo's "Black and Latino" documentary, the "Devious Maids" star recalled being turned away from Latina roles because of her appearance.

"It bothered me, of course it bothered me, because what I look like and what I am, it doesn’t change that I’m a Latina," Reyes said. "And you’re telling me that I’m too dark?"
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