Kim Jho Gwang-soo, Gay South Korean Film Director, To Marry In Effort To Pry Open Closet

Gay Film Director Makes Daring Move In South Korea
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Kim Jho Gwang-Soo (L), a South Korean movie director who is gay, kisses his partner Dave Kim (R) during a press conference to disclose their wedding plans in Seoul on May 15, 2013. The director is one of a few South Korean movie workers who have come out as gay, but his marriage will not be formally recognized under South Korean law. AFP PHOTO / JUNG YEON-JE (Photo credit should read JUNG YEON-JE/AFP/Getty Images)

By Christine Kim

SEOUL, May 15 (Reuters) - A gay South Korean film director is set to symbolically marry his long-term partner, saying he aims to pry open the closet in this conservative Asian country where homosexuality is still taboo and gays have been subjected to hate crimes.

Kim Jho Gwang-soo announced plans to marry his partner of nine years on Wednesday, becoming the first South Korean show business personality to do so and only the second to ever come out. The other, an actor, now says he regrets his decision.

"We wanted to convey the message that all sexual minorities should be given rights equally in a beautiful way," the 49-year-old Kim told a news conference in the South Korean capital of Seoul as he sat next to his partner, Kim Seung-hwan.

The two then kissed in an unprecedented display of affection for a same-sex couple in Korea, where traditional Confucian and Christian values remain strong.

Kim has directed a handful of films that were well received by domestic audiences and came out in 2005 during a screening for one of them. When not producing movies, he works for LGBT (lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender) rights advocacy.

The two will marry on Sept 7, a symbolic move since Korea remains far from legalising same-sex unions despite a wave of such approval in Europe and the United States. On Tuesday, Minnesota became the 12th U.S. state to allow them.

Homosexuality is not illegal in Korea, but like elsewhere in Asia the pressure to marry someone of the opposite sex to continue the family blood line is strong and leads many to hide their homosexuality.

In 2000, actor Hong Seok-cheon became the first celebrity in this idol-obsessed culture to come out. But work dried up and he has since said he regretted the move.

Kim has been subject to less social opprobrium due to his role behind the camera rather than in front of it, but Korean gays doubted the announcement of his marriage would do much.

"I support his personal choice, but I don't think it'll change anything," said Yu Sang-geun, a 25-year-old gay Seoul student and activist with Solidarity for LGBT Human Rights in Korea, the nation's largest LGBT rights group.

"South Koreans' understanding of gays is very stunted," said Yu. "Kim's decision could be the foundation of more things to come, but there is so much to do regarding gay rights."

Gays and lesbians in South Korea have been subject to hate crimes. A gay man was sprayed with hydrochloric acid in 2008 by a friend, while one of Yu's acquaintances was raped while doing his compulsory military service.

Some South Korean lawmakers have pushed the country to adopt a comprehensive anti-discrimination law that would embrace gay rights, but amendments have foundered due to conservative Christian legislators who oppose recognition.

(Editing by David Chance, Elaine Lies and Michael Perry)

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Gay Marriage Around The World
Netherlands(01 of18)
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The Netherlands was the first country to recognize gay marriage in 2001. Pictured: Jan van Breda and Thijs Timmermans. (credit:Getty)
Belgium(02 of18)
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Belgium legalized same-sex marriages in 2003. Pictured: Marion Huibrecht and Christel Verswyvelen. (credit:Getty)
Spain(03 of18)
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Spain legalized gay marriage in 2005. (credit:Getty)
Canada(04 of18)
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Canada followed Spain and approved gay marriage in 2005. (credit:Getty)
South Africa(05 of18)
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South Africa legalized same sex marriage in 2006.Pictured: Vernon Gibbs and Tony Hall. (credit:Getty)
Norway(06 of18)
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Norway followed suit in 2009.Norwegian finance minister and chairwoman of the Socialist Left party Kristin Halvorsen (L) stands next to wedding figurines outside the House of Parliament in Oslo on June 11, 2008, where she celebrated the passing of a new law awarding equal rights to same sex partnerships as those enjoyed by heterosexual marriages. (Getty) (credit:Getty)
Sweden(07 of18)
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Sweden recognized same sex marriage in 2009.Pictured: Johan Lundqvist (L) and Alf Karlsson. (credit:Getty)
Portugal(08 of18)
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Portugal recognized gay marriage in 2010.Pictured: Teresa Pires and Helena Paixao. (credit:Getty)
Iceland(09 of18)
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Iceland legalized gay marriage in 2010. (credit:Getty)
Argentina(10 of18)
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Argentina legalized same sex-marriage in 2010. It was the only Latin American country to do so. Pictured: Giorgio Nocentino (L) and Jaime Zapata. (credit:Getty)
New Zealand(11 of18)
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New Zealand became the first Asia-Pacific nation (and the 13th in the world) to legalize same-sex marriage.Pictured: Jills Angus Burney (L) and Deborah Hambly. (credit:AP)
Denmark(12 of18)
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Denmark became the first country to allow the registration of gay partnerships in 1989. In 2012, Denmark's Parliament approved a law allowing same-sex couples to get married in formal church weddings instead of the short blessing ceremonies that the state's Lutheran Church offered. (credit:Getty Images)
Uruguay(13 of18)
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The Uruguay Parliament lawmakers passed the "marriage equality project" in Montevideo, Uruguay,Wednesday, April 10, 2013. (credit:AP)
U.S.A. (14 of18)
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Same-sex marriage is legal in 13 U.S. states and Washington DC. (credit:AP)
Brazil (15 of18)
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Some parts of Brazil allow same-sex marriage (AL, BA, CE, DF, ES, MS, PR, PI, SE, and SP). (credit:AP)
Mexico(16 of18)
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Some areas of Mexico allow gay marriage, such as Mexico City. (credit:AP)
France(17 of18)
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France legalized same sex marriage in 2013.Pictures: an illustration made with plastic figurines of men is seen in front of the Palais Bourbon, the seat of the French National Assembly. (JOEL SAGET/Getty Images) (credit:JOEL SAGET/Getty Images)
Britain(18 of18)
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Britain legalized gay marriage on July 17, 2013 after Queen Elizabeth II gave her royal stamp of approval.Gay marriages are set to begin in England and Wales in the summer of 2014. (credit:Getty Images)