Men And Women Describe Their Very Last Night With Their Exes

"It was like being in the eye of the storm."
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Readers say their last nights with their exes were "awkward," "tense," and "sad."

The last night you spend under the same roof as your ex is almost always emotionally charged. Below, readers share what that fateful night was like for them.

1. "I had moved out of town and came back for court. We spent the night in a hotel together. It was sweet and sad. We still loved each other and I knew it but I couldn't convince him things would improve. Three years later we still talk a few times a week and he is my emergency contact." -- Sheila G.

2. "Awkward. He slept in the guest room as he had for the past five years." -- Shannon D.

3. "Silent." -- Imelda J.

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There's nothing easy about the very last night with a partner.

 4. "Heartbreaking, sad, peaceful, filled with gratitude for everything we had shared and been to each other." -- Melissa B.

5. "I couldn't stop crying." -- Gabriella C.

6. "Tense." -- Debra H.

7. "Unaware. I truly had no idea it was the last night." -- Alysha N.

8. "Cold War." -- Taleern L. 

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9. "Weird. I was leaving the country to go home and we both knew I wasn't sure if I'd be coming back." -- Tiffany W.

10. "Distant." -- Joey T.

11. "As friends, when we really were anything but. It was like being in the eye of the storm." -- Carol S.

12. "Intense and sad." -- Bree A.

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8 Women Whose Divorce Was A Catalyst For Change
Martha Stewart (01 of08)
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Today she's a lifestyle powerhouse but before she was a household name, she was a fashion model-turned-stockbroker married to a publishing executive named Andy Stewart.

In 1972, the couple and their daughter moved to Connecticut where Martha launched a successful gourmet catering company. But Martha's career truly took off after her 1990 divorce. With the launch of her lifestyle magazine Martha Stewart Living in 1991, her company became Martha Stewart Living Omnimedia, Inc. A successful cable TV cooking show and radio show followed, proving that divorce truly can be a good thing.
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Nora Ephron(02 of08)
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Nora Ephron's 1980 divorce from fellow writer Carl Bernstein inspired Heartburn, an autobiographical novel that was adapted into a film starring Jack Nicholson and Meryl Streep six years later.

Post-divorce, the late writer went on to pen over a dozen books and screenplays, including much loved scripts for "When Harry Met Sally" and "Sleepless in Seattle." In her final book I Remember Nothing, Ephron reflected on moving on from the divorce.

“The divorce has lasted way longer than the marriage, but finally it’s over. Enough about that," she wrote. "The point is that for a long time, the fact that I was divorced was the most important thing about me. And now it’s not.”
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Cheryl Strayed (03 of08)
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In the wake of a divorce and her mother's death from lung cancer, a devastated, 26-year-old Cheryl Strayed set off on a solo, 1,000-mile hike along the Pacific Crest Trail -- a trek she'd later document in her bestselling 2012 memoir, Wild. In a revealing essay that ran in The Sun literary magazine, Strayed opened up about her divorce from first husband Marco Littig.

"We loved each other, but love was not enough. We had become the Insanely Young, Insanely Sad, Insanely Messed-Up Married Couple," she wrote.

Post-divorce, the writer also legally changed her last name from Nyland to Strayed, to symbolize the uncharted path her life had taken.
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Tina Turner(04 of08)
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Musical duo Tina and Ike Turner's notoriously messy marriage -- Ike was reportedly physically and emotionally abusive -- ended in divorce in 1978. Tina kept the surname after the split and went on to become even bigger as a solo artist. In a 1986 interview with Ebony, Turner said she hoped her story would inspire others to make big leaps in their lives.

"If you are unhappy with anything -- your mother, your father, your husband, your wife, your job, your boss, your car -- whatever is bringing you down, get rid of it," she said. "You'll find that when you're free, your true creativity, your true self comes out."
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Elizabeth Gilbert (05 of08)
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Following an emotionally shattering divorce, writer Elizabeth Gilbert embarked on a year-long journey to Italy, India and Indonesia. When she returned, she penned Eat Pray Love, a memoir chronicling the whole soul-searching trip.

“I'm choosing happiness over suffering, I know I am," Gilbert writes in the best-selling book. "I'm making space for the unknown future to fill up my life with yet-to-come surprises.”
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Wendy Davis (06 of08)
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Before she pursued politics, former Texas state senator Wendy Davis was a 21-year-old divorced mom struggling to put food on the table for her young daughter.

To make ends meet, Davis worked at a doctor’s office and as a waitress, all while attending community college. Ultimately, she was accepted to Harvard Law School. After graduation, the single mom returned to Texas where she served on the Fort Worth City Council and won a Fort Worth seat in the Texas Senate in 2008.

"I'm not an overnight sensation," Davis said during her 2014 Texas gubernatorial campaign. "I'm a Texan. And I'm a Texas success story. I am the epitome of hard work and optimism."
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Eva Longoria (07 of08)
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Eva Longoria separated from Tony Parker in November 2010 amid reports that the NBA star had been caught "sexting" with a former teammate's wife. Unshaken by the tabloids' attention, the actress continued to work on "Desperate Housewives" while devoting more time charity and social causes. (It's not for nothing that she was named philanthropist of the year by The Hollywood Reporter in 2009.)

In 2013, Longoria earned her master's degree in Chicano studies from California State University after three years of study.
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Sharon Olds(08 of08)
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In 2013, Sharon Olds won the Pulitzer Prize in Poetry for Stag's Leap, a collection the Pulitzer board described as a “book of unflinching poems on the author's divorce that examine love, sorrow, and the limits of self-knowledge."

In an interview with The Huffington Post shortly after she received the honor, Olds opened up about the raw experience of writing about being left by her husband after 32 years of marriage.

"I think not writing is a lot more painful than writing," Olds said. "Working -- though it's really a kind of playing -- to make something that can stand on its own, a small song, that's fun."
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