ICYMI: The Dark Side Of Being A People Person And How Sleep Can Make You More Creative

ICYMI: The Dark Side Of Being A People Person And How Sleep Can Make You More Creative
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ICYMI Health features what we're reading this week.

Mental Health Awareness month began on May 1, and we were captivated by the stories of friends and family whose loved ones struggled with sports-related concussions and then depression. We also took in a mini-documentary highlighting the day-to-day difficulties of parenting a child who suffers from paranoid schizophrenia in the U.K., a country where an increasing number of children are being hospitalized for self-harm even as funding for mental health services spirals downward.

Read on and tell us in the comments: What did you read, watch, listen to and love this week?

Daniel Carcillo speaks out the death of his best friend and teammate, Chicago Blackhawks player Steve Montador, who passed away after sustaining a serious concussion on the ice.

Quote: "He had a lot going on in his head, with regards to worrying about whether he'd wake up the next morning and feel great, or whether he'd have to stay inside with the blinds shut in a dark room. When you have a concussion, you go through that. It's a dark place. I just recently had one. I fell into a lull, especially after Monty's passing."


While distractions are usually bad for learning, practicing in a distracting place can be beneficial if you'll have to perform (say, take a test) in a noisy or chaotic environment.

Quote: "Famously, investigators once showed that words learned while scuba diving are easier to recall underwater than on dry land. "



Vani Hari, better known as the Food Babe, has successfully campaigned to get the "yoga mat chemicals" out of subway sandwiches and the food dye of Kraft mac and cheese, even though experts say her fear mongering is based on flimsy science.

Quote: "We trust material that is familiar, words that we can pronounce. Lots of chemical terms come from the Greek, so they have a lot of harsh-sounding vowels and consonant mixed in them -- oxydane, methotrexate -- they sound scary."


Karen Kinzle Zegel struggled to understand what was causing her son's depression and reckless behavior. When her son, Patrick, committed suicide last year, brain scans revealed that years as a star football player had permanently damaged his brain.

Quote: "As she looks back on that late night last September, their conversation wasn’t just about a measly $400 bank overdraft. It was about football. The word was never uttered, but that’s what this was really about. Football."


These stunning portraits capture the lives of women who have seen the worst of what life has to offer, and come out the other side.

Quote: "One mother said, 'I didn't know I was so beautiful as a pregnant woman.' Often the women we work with have a negative body image. Some pregnant women want to be on a diet to not gain any weight. These photos help them see what strong, beautiful women they truly are."


Being in touch with your feelings and the feelings of those around you gives you an edge, especially in the workplace. High emotional intelligence can also make you a manipulative jerk.

Quote: "Researchers have recently examined what they call 'the dark side' of EI, and their findings suggest an unnerving link between understanding people and using them."



In the wake of Bruce Jenner's announcement that he is transgender, The Huffington Post spoke with experts and activists about the best ways to be there for a friend or loved going through a similar experience.

Quote: "'Transitioning isn't just bravery, it's a necessity,' she explained. 'They're born this way. Not transitioning isn't an option.'"

A shortage of hospital beds in the U.K. means that Sally Burke must make a 118-mile round trip drive to visit her 13-year-old daughter Maisie, who is receiving treatment for paranoid schizophrenia in Sheffield, England.

Quote: "That I'm aware of, Maisie started self-harming in the December of 2013. I came home from work and found her trying to stab herself with a pair of scissors. Some days it haunts me more than other days. There was a few months where I would replay her life -- replay events. How could I have missed it? I felt that I let her down."

When it comes to creative problem solving, getting some shuteye may be more effective than long hours at the office.

Quote "Generating creative ideas requires moving beyond the surface of the problem and finding an essence to the problem."

Before You Go

Health Benefits Of Gratitude
Good For Teens' Mental Health (01 of10)
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Grateful teens are happier, according to a study presented at one of the annual meetings of the American Psychological Association. Researchers also found that teens who are grateful -- defined in this study as having a positive outlook on life -- are more well-behaved at school and more hopeful than their less-grateful peers. They also got better grades, had less envy and more friends due to their optimism."More gratitude may be precisely what our society needs to raise a generation that is ready to make a difference in the world," said study researcher Giacomo Bono, Ph.D., a psychology professor at California State University. (credit:Shutterstock)
Boosts Well-Being(02 of10)
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Being constantly mindful of all the things you have to be thankful for can boost your well-being, research suggests.In a series of experiments detailed in a 2003 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, daily exercise practices and listing off all the things you are thankful for are linked with a brighter outlook on life and a greater sense of positivity. "There do appear to exist benefits to regularly focusing on one's blessings," the researchers wrote in the study. "The advantages are most pronounced when compared with a focus on hassles or complaints, yet are still apparent in comparison with simply reflecting the major events in one’s life, on ways in which one believes one is better off than comparison with others, or with a control group." (credit:Alamy)
Linked With Better Grades (03 of10)
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Grateful high-schoolers have higher GPAs -- as well as better social integration and satisfaction with life -- than their non-grateful counterparts, according to a 2010 study in the Journal of Happiness Studies.Researchers also found that grateful teens were less depressed and envious. This could be a factor in why the teens got better grades since they were less distracted and lived healthier lives."When combined with previous research, a clearer picture is beginning to emerge about the benefits of gratitude in adolescents, and thus an important gap in the literature on gratitude and well-being is beginning to be filled," researchers wrote. (credit:Alamy)
Makes You A Better Friend To Others (04 of10)
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According to a 2003 study in the the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, gratitude could also boost pro-social behaviors, such as helping other people who have problems or lending emotional support to another person. This explains why religious services include reflection days and why so many self-help groups such as AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) use grateful thinking practices. (credit:Alamy)
Helps You Sleep Better (05 of10)
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Writing down what you're thankful for as you drift off to sleep can quiet the mind and help you get better ZZs, according to a study in the journal Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being. Specifically, researchers found that when people spent 15 minutes jotting down what they're grateful for in a journal before bedtime, they fell asleep faster and stayed asleep longer because they worried less, Psychology Today reported. Participants with neuromuscular disorders reported that they had more refreshing sleep in just 3 weeks. (credit:Shutterstock)
Strengthens Your Relationships(06 of10)
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Being thankful for the little things your partner does could make your relationship stronger, according to a study in the journal Personal Relationships.The Telegraph reported on the study, which showed that journaling about the thoughtful things your partner did was linked with a beneficial outcome on the relationship. The researchers found that gratitude for everyday kind gestures helps people become close to others who care about their well-being. They claim, "Gratitude may help to turn 'ordinary' moments into opportunities for relationship growth, even in the context of already close, communal relations.’' (credit:Shutterstock)
Benefits The Heart (07 of10)
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A 1995 study in the American Journal of Cardiology showed that appreciation and positive emotions are linked with changes in heart rate variability.
[This] may be beneficial in the treatment of hypertension and in reducing the likelihood of sudden death in patients with congestive heart failure and coronary artery disease.
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Is Good For Team Morale (08 of10)
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Athletes are less likely to burn out and more likely to experience high life satisfaction and team satisfaction when they are grateful, according to a 2008 study in the journal Social Indicators Research of high-schoolers.Gratitude sharpens the senses, enhancing athletic performance according to Positive Performance Training. (credit:Alamy)
Linked WIth Better Immune Health(09 of10)
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Gratefulness is linked with optimism, which in turn is linked with better immune health, WebMD reported. For example, a University of Utah study showed that stressed-out law students who were optimistic had more white blood cells (which help boost your immune system) than people who were pessimistic, according to WebMD. (credit:Alamy)
Protects You From Negative Emotions That Come With Extreme Loss (10 of10)
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WebMD reported that negative events can boost gratitude, and that gratitude can help to increase feelings of belonging and decrease feelings of stress.Interestingly, adversity can enhance gratitude, helping people to feel more connected after a terrible event, such as 9/11. A survey showed that feelings of gratitude were at high levels after 9/11, according to WebMD. (credit:Alamy)

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