When Is The Right Time To Move In Together? Survey Says...

When Is The Right Time To Move In Together? Survey Says...
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It's the age-old question that consistently plagues couples: when is the right time to move-in together?

A lot of unknowns come into play here, which makes the decision so much more difficult. Is it too soon? Will it save me money? Will it cost me money? Will it hurt our relationship? What if he/she discovers I'm actually a hoarder of Cat Fancy?

The folks at Rent.com wanted to get to the bottom of this and asked 1,000 cohabiting renters their thoughts on how long couples should date before making the big move.

According to the survey, 37 percent said six months to a year is an appropriate amount of time, 29 percent said more than one year, and 18 percent said to wait until after marriage. You can see all the results in the infographic below.

But what happened once these couples made the move? Was it all butterflies and rainbows?

Once couples shacked up, 63 percent said they rarely have a night with just their friends, and 58 percents said weekends are spent staying home with their S.O.

And though 27 percent of respondents said they moved in together within less than six months of dating, only seven percent of people surveyed recommended doing that.

However, on the bright side, almost half of those surveyed said the upside to moving in was spending more time with their loved one. And 32 percent said moving in together helped them realize they had found "the one."

What do you think? What's the right time to say "I do... want to move in with you?"

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Before You Go

10 Items To Toss When Moving In With Someone
Anything An Ex Gave You(01 of10)
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It's time to start fresh with each other. Love the teddy bear your ex-boyfriend won for you at the local fair? Give it one last squeeze, then bid adieu.
Things From Another Decade(02 of10)
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Acid wash jeans. Anything with shoulder pads. Tie-dye t-shirts. You get the drill.
Bridesmaid Dresses(03 of10)
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You might still be pouting about the money you had to fork over for your bestie's wedding, but if you haven't worn a dress for more than a year, it's time to give it the old heave-ho. Remember: The walk-in closet isn't just for you any more.
Magnets(04 of10)
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A lobster from your road trip to Nova Scotia, a yellow taxi cab from that weekend getaway to NYC: Magnets may seem little, but they add a ton of clutter to a space. Repeat: A clutter-free fridge is a happy fridge; a happy fridge means a happy relationship.
Sports Memorabilia(05 of10)
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Hoarding the big foam finger you sported when your team got the winning point will not bring back the team's glory days (or your youth). Players move on; so should you.
Video Games(06 of10)
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Seen The Break-Up? Vince Vaughn's Gary gets the boot for his lazy ways, which include a relationship with his gaming system that overshadows that with his girlfriend. Replace Grand Theft Auto with snuggle time to ensure you're not demoted to cold nights on the couch.
Old Fashion Magazines(07 of10)
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It all started with your subscription to Teen, and you never looked back. Unless it's an absolute must-keep issue (i.e. the cover features the cast of Friends to bemoan the series' end), remember that the Earth is your friend, and all that paper would make a cozy companion for your recycling bin.
Flea-Market Finds(08 of10)
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Sometimes you can find real treasures at the local thrift shop or garage sale, but often times another person's junk is well, just junk. Review that mismatched armchair and foot rest with critical, objective eyes. If it won't add true appeal to your new place in the real-estate sense of the word, it's time to let go.
Baseball Card Collections(09 of10)
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Your overflowing yet still undervalued baseball card collection. You collected, you clung, you clinched no money. Release these cards to their destiny--the local pawn shop--and say hello to adulthood.
Ratty Alma Mater Duds(10 of10)
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They were there for you during rough times: Cramming for finals, working on a doomed essay the night before it was due, dealing with the anxiety of being a new grad without a job. But let's face it: Nobody wants to see you in tattered sweats and tees, no matter how much they love you. Treat these like a garden salad and toss!

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