A Professional Potty Trainer's 5 Best Pieces Of Advice

The Key To Potty Training Your Child In Two Days
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From nannies and tutors to sleep specialists, nursery designers and child-proofing experts, it truly takes a village to raise a child. And now you can add a professional potty trainer to that roster.

On June 12, early childhood education specialist Samantha Allen officially incorporated her new business venture: NYC Potty Training. With the motto "We train. You relax," the company promises to potty train children in just one or two 8-hour sessions.

"I have been doing this for so long, with so many different kids, that I have a trick up my sleeve for anything that may come up," Allen told The Huffington Post in an email.

So, how does she do it? "I am consistent," Allen said. "I stay calm, I have a really good rapport with kids, and above all else, and this is really the key to it all -- I make it fun and help keep both the child and parent relaxed."

A two-day package typically costs $1750, and one 8-hour session is $925 (Allen is currently offering discounts). But if you can't make it to the New York City area, here are five potty training secrets from the pro herself:

1. Keep it positive, fun, and stress-free. Reward their successes and stay neutral about their accidents (for yourself too).

2. Keep track of what time they eliminated throughout the process and use that data to determine patterns and intervals between having a full bladder.

3. Enable lots of opportunities for practice by pumping the child with as much fluid as they will drink but without forcing it on them (as per #1). This will help with one of the most important aspects:

4. Go cold turkey to underwear when you begin the potty training process, and commit to it, at the very least, during the day.

5. Choose your words thoughtfully and take other proactive measures to avoid enabling your child to engage you in power struggles (these strategies are helpful parenting tools outside of potty training as well). For example, you can't argue with a timer.

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Before You Go

Potty Training? 9 Pro-Tips for Parents
Public accidents(01 of09)
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Accidents happen. And when it comes to potty training, do they ever — especially in public. Try to have your toddler go before you leave and use a “potty timer” to help you stay on track for the next break. No matter where you are, always make sure the first thing you do is to locate the closest restroom. It also helps to be prepared with a potty training emergency kit, full of wipes, a change of clothes, and training pants. (credit:Alamy)
Potty training on the road(02 of09)
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Be prepared and expect travel time to be longer than it may take in reality. Try your best to plan scheduled stops and count on having to take extra time traveling for those unexpected potty breaks. Be sure your toddler is wearing training pants in case an accident does happen. It’s important to stay consistent with your training, but if there are scenarios where you aren’t left with many options, such as being stuck on a plane and your child can’t make it to the bathroom, once you arrive back home, you can jump back into your training routine. (credit:Getty)
My child is afraid of the potty(03 of09)
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It’s important to remember that toddlers can’t always see things the way grown-ups do. Their fears are real and we need to respect them. To a toddler, something like falling in the toilet or something reaching up to grab them from the toilet is very scary, especially when it’s an unfamiliar potty! Build their confidence over time by making it fun and turning it into a game or letting them have their favorite book or toy while they go. You can even turn to apps for a variety of fun games and celebrations that turn going potty into a fun adventure that kids can get excited about! (credit:Getty)
Potty training two at a time(04 of09)
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It’s important to remember that every child’s potty training experience will be different and that goes for twins, as well. It is not realistic to expect them to train at the same time, as both children will have different motivators, could be ready at different times, and take different lengths of times to train. Stay encouraged about success but don’t let a child whom is not ready feel left out or ashamed just because they’re not ready. You should custom tailor your approach to the personality of the child. Often times, watching a sibling go potty can give a child the confidence they need to get started as well. (credit:Getty)
Not making it to the potty on time(05 of09)
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Your best bet to avoid a mad-dash to the potty is to establish a consistent routine and use fun rituals like a potty break. There are apps available that include potty timers to build a routine, but when accidents do happen, have it set in your mind that you will not make a big deal out of it. Reassure them with words like “you almost made it!” and maintain a positive attitude. It’s important to never shame your child if they have an accident, as this will make them more likely to hide and be fearful of the situation. To make things easier, Pull-Ups has partnered with Disney's Monsters University to make potty training more fun for your toddler. Simply through a playful ritual of asking your child "What does a little monster take?" parents can teach their children through positive reinforcement that everyone takes potty breaks — even their favorite characters. (credit:Getty)
I’ve never trained a boy (…or girl) before!(06 of09)
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Your child trusts you and as long as you keep a confident, positive attitude, you’ll do just fine at potty training them, regardless of what their gender might be! Your toddler will feel comfortable and confident about their ability to use the big kid potty when you are there to help guide the process. If you want to give them more reassurance, ask a trusted family member of the same sex as your toddler, such as an aunt, uncle or older sibling to lend a hand in explaining how to use the potty. (credit:Getty)
Is it taking too long?(07 of09)
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This is one of the most common potty training fears. Parents all have different ideas about when their child should know how to go, but need to be reassured of what is normal. There is no one, set amount of time it will take to potty train your toddler, because every child is different and will get started and progress at his or her own rate. You should never let external pressures give you false expectations about your child’s development or progress. This is one of the biggest milestones toward becoming a big kid, so try not worry and enjoy the ride while they’re still small. (credit:Alamy)
Am I rewarding my child too much?(08 of09)
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A rewards system can prove incredibly useful in potty training. Whether it’s a penny, sticker, candy, or small prize for every success, incentives can turn an otherwise trying transition into even more of a game. Positive reinforcement not only makes your child more confident, but may also have them wanting to go potty even when they do not have to. (credit:Getty)
I’m frustrated and don’t know where to begin! (09 of09)
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Potty training is one of the biggest milestones you will encounter with your child. It’s important to remember that it is a marathon and not a sprint. Don’t let pressures from friends or family get to you. Try to think about all the amazing developmental steps your child has been making. While toddlers certainly know how to push parents’ buttons and test our limits, we don’t have to take the bait. Take a second to step back and take a deep breath to regain perspective and control. Remind yourself that they (and you!) are only human. Give yourself permission to vent your frustration, but just remember not to do it in front of your child! (credit:Getty)

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