How A (Very) Little, Daily Favor Can Change Your Life

How A (Very) Little, Daily Favor Can Change Your Life
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Want to make the world a better place? Want to get a leg-up at work? Good -- you can do both. Enter the five-minute favor.

The concept is no more complicated than its name alludes: Take five minutes out of your day to do something that'll benefit another person. That's it.

"Even if you have no time, you can make time for five minutes," says Adam Rifkin, co-founder of PandaWhale and the man who gave a name to this small act of kindness. Rifkin began to perform daily, five-minute favors when he first got started in Silicon Valley in the late 1990s.

"I would regularly see people who had a lot of money or power or were very successful, and they would take time to do these favors that really didn't benefit them. And I thought it was amazing." The reason it works, Rifkin says, is because of its counterintuitive economics: "It doesn't cost you much, but it can make a big difference in somebody's life."

We're used to doing nice, selfless things for our family and social networks, but this is a less common practice in the workplace. It's a paradigm that should gain traction: Office altruism will cultivate your professional life.

"It makes you more bonded and attached to the people you're interacting with." And by doing so, Rifkin explains, you'll be building a professional support structure.

For Rifkin, a go-to favor is making introductions. "I'll find somebody who would really benefit from knowing someone else and I’ll connect them." However you decide to give is worthy -- as long as it's genuine. Professionals in particular will recognize the generosity behind your actions, since in an office culture, we're all so pressed for time. "Time is the currency that no one can really buy more of," Rifkin says. "If you're paying with your time rather than paying with cash, it's more meaningful. Especially when you're busy."

And -- bonus! Doing good for others means they'll want to do good for you: We're psychologically wired with a drive to reciprocate. But the practice doesn't involve keeping score. It's not a transaction. "At the beginning you will be paying up front -- it's a pay-it-forward way of life."

Even if you don't get a favor in return, you'll reap some big benefits. Giving has strong ties to longevity and happiness. Better yet, a recent study found that giving to those with whom you share a social connection (like the coworkers you spend your most of your weekdays with) can improve these happy feelings that come with being generous.

Plus, the action might be your ticket to overcoming a work slump. "What's nice is that it gets you out of routine. It forces you to think about somebody else." These are just the kinds of breaks that Tony Schwartz so heartily advocates when it comes to productivity. You'll be giving your brain the opportunity to switch gears and prevent burn out. "It kind of clears your mind for a bit," Rifkin explains. "It is a form a meditation in a sense."

And if you believe in karma, well, there's always that. As Twyla Tharp puts it, "Generosity is luck going in the opposite direction, away from you. If you're generous to someone, if you do something to help him out, you are in effect making him lucky. This is important. It's like inviting yourself into a community of good fortune."

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Health Benefits Of Gratitude
Good For Teens' Mental Health (01 of10)
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Grateful teens are happier, according to a study presented at one of the annual meetings of the American Psychological Association. Researchers also found that teens who are grateful -- defined in this study as having a positive outlook on life -- are more well-behaved at school and more hopeful than their less-grateful peers. They also got better grades, had less envy and more friends due to their optimism."More gratitude may be precisely what our society needs to raise a generation that is ready to make a difference in the world," said study researcher Giacomo Bono, Ph.D., a psychology professor at California State University. (credit:Shutterstock)
Boosts Well-Being(02 of10)
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Being constantly mindful of all the things you have to be thankful for can boost your well-being, research suggests.In a series of experiments detailed in a 2003 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, daily exercise practices and listing off all the things you are thankful for are linked with a brighter outlook on life and a greater sense of positivity. "There do appear to exist benefits to regularly focusing on one's blessings," the researchers wrote in the study. "The advantages are most pronounced when compared with a focus on hassles or complaints, yet are still apparent in comparison with simply reflecting the major events in one’s life, on ways in which one believes one is better off than comparison with others, or with a control group." (credit:Alamy)
Linked With Better Grades (03 of10)
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Grateful high-schoolers have higher GPAs -- as well as better social integration and satisfaction with life -- than their non-grateful counterparts, according to a 2010 study in the Journal of Happiness Studies.Researchers also found that grateful teens were less depressed and envious. This could be a factor in why the teens got better grades since they were less distracted and lived healthier lives."When combined with previous research, a clearer picture is beginning to emerge about the benefits of gratitude in adolescents, and thus an important gap in the literature on gratitude and well-being is beginning to be filled," researchers wrote. (credit:Alamy)
Makes You A Better Friend To Others (04 of10)
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According to a 2003 study in the the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, gratitude could also boost pro-social behaviors, such as helping other people who have problems or lending emotional support to another person. This explains why religious services include reflection days and why so many self-help groups such as AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) use grateful thinking practices. (credit:Alamy)
Helps You Sleep Better (05 of10)
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Writing down what you're thankful for as you drift off to sleep can quiet the mind and help you get better ZZs, according to a study in the journal Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being. Specifically, researchers found that when people spent 15 minutes jotting down what they're grateful for in a journal before bedtime, they fell asleep faster and stayed asleep longer because they worried less, Psychology Today reported. Participants with neuromuscular disorders reported that they had more refreshing sleep in just 3 weeks. (credit:Shutterstock)
Strengthens Your Relationships(06 of10)
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Being thankful for the little things your partner does could make your relationship stronger, according to a study in the journal Personal Relationships.The Telegraph reported on the study, which showed that journaling about the thoughtful things your partner did was linked with a beneficial outcome on the relationship. The researchers found that gratitude for everyday kind gestures helps people become close to others who care about their well-being. They claim, "Gratitude may help to turn 'ordinary' moments into opportunities for relationship growth, even in the context of already close, communal relations.’' (credit:Shutterstock)
Benefits The Heart (07 of10)
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A 1995 study in the American Journal of Cardiology showed that appreciation and positive emotions are linked with changes in heart rate variability.
[This] may be beneficial in the treatment of hypertension and in reducing the likelihood of sudden death in patients with congestive heart failure and coronary artery disease.
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Is Good For Team Morale (08 of10)
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Athletes are less likely to burn out and more likely to experience high life satisfaction and team satisfaction when they are grateful, according to a 2008 study in the journal Social Indicators Research of high-schoolers.Gratitude sharpens the senses, enhancing athletic performance according to Positive Performance Training. (credit:Alamy)
Linked WIth Better Immune Health(09 of10)
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Gratefulness is linked with optimism, which in turn is linked with better immune health, WebMD reported. For example, a University of Utah study showed that stressed-out law students who were optimistic had more white blood cells (which help boost your immune system) than people who were pessimistic, according to WebMD. (credit:Alamy)
Protects You From Negative Emotions That Come With Extreme Loss (10 of10)
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WebMD reported that negative events can boost gratitude, and that gratitude can help to increase feelings of belonging and decrease feelings of stress.Interestingly, adversity can enhance gratitude, helping people to feel more connected after a terrible event, such as 9/11. A survey showed that feelings of gratitude were at high levels after 9/11, according to WebMD. (credit:Alamy)

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