The Healing Powers Of Keeping A Journal (And How To Stick With It)

The Healing Powers Of Keeping A Journal (And How To Stick With It)
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By Barbara Stepko

Get an injection, down those pills, and follow your M.D.'s advice to the letter: These are all pretty familiar forms of medicine. But if you want to enhance those healing powers, you might also consider something as simple as picking up a pen.

Studies suggest that expressive writing (as in, the kind that begins "Dear diary...") can offer some very real health benefits -- among them, helping wounds heal faster, reducing stress and fatigue in cancer patients, and easing the symptoms of conditions such as asthma, rheumatoid arthritis and irritable bowel syndrome.

"Journal therapy is all about using personal material as a way of documenting an experience, and learning more about yourself in the process," says Kathleen Adams, LPC, a Colorado-based psychotherapist and author of Journal to the Self. "It lets us say what's on our minds and helps us get -- and stay -- healthy through listening to our inner desires and needs."

Never been the journaling type? To get started, follow these tips.

Choose your moments.

"Don't plan to write every day," Adams cautions. "When there's that expectation, the first day that's missed, all of the air is let out of the balloon. It's like a New Year's resolution in that way. For some, once a week is enough; for others, five times a week is just right." There are no rules, but it's helpful to have a strategy when first getting started to develop consistency -- for example, check in with yourself three times a week. The length of time isn't as significant as what Adams calls the doingness, or the pattern. Set timer for 10 minutes; you can go beyond that or put down your pen. Develop a rhythm, so it can be done, say, three times a week for three or four weeks. Once it becomes a habituated response to stress or management, then the frequency can back off.

Ease into it.

"Before picking up a pen, try an entrance meditation to transition into a state of mindfulness," Adams says. Your ritual might be savoring a cup of tea, listening to classical music, trying a few yoga poses or just petting your cat on your lap, according to Adams. It can even be as brief as closing your eyes and taking three deep breaths.

Start scribbling.

When some people think of therapeutic writing, they think of free-form (or abstract) writing -- basically jotting whatever pops into your head. But when you sit down with a blank piece of paper and no plan or structure, there’s a likelihood that you’ll venture into some not-so-good places, Adams says. When writing about emotionally difficult subjects, short, structured journal writing works better.

Some tactics to try:

  • Sentence stems: Write down the first part of a sentence, such as I feel the most important thing to do is...; What I want is... then complete each one. Sounds easy, right? It is, and that’s the beauty of the exercise: "There is an immediate gratification. If the only thing you have to do is finish a sentence, and you accomplish that, then you feel successful," Adams explains. "What's more, it doesn’t take long to realize that you're telling yourself surprising and revealing things -- and that element of surprise is one of the most healing aspects of writing. Our conscious mind may be driving the bus, but it's not always in charge."
  • Five-Minute Sprint: Set the timer for five minutes, write down anything that comes to mind, then put the pen down. Use a prompt that you can actively engage in like "How am I feeling?" or "How do I want my day to be?" "Five minutes may seem like a ridiculously short amount of time," Adams notes. "But when you know that's all you have, you get busy."
  • Behavior research: Simply put, practice how you’re going to react in a specific situation so when the time comes you’re prepared for anything. "No matter what happens, no matter what you're hit with, you feel competent and ready to handle it," Adams says. "You feel powerful."
  • Springboard: Write a word with one letter on each line (healing, for example), then write open sentences or thoughts that start with each letter. “I’m always surprised by the insights that come from working with this goofy structure," Adams says. "Unhook your brain and don’t think about it so much -- just let it come."

Now reflect.

After each entry, re-read what you've written, then give yourself a sentence or two of feedback. Start with "I'm surprised by --" or "I'm aware of --" then use those prompts to help you sum things up. "If you just close the book and move on, that 'aha' moment will fade away," Adams says. This part, aptly named reflection writing, is very important; it can reveal deeper, more profound levels of insight, she adds.

One final thing to keep in mind: The more balanced your journal is the better. "When you only concentrate on the negative, it doesn't represent the whole picture," Adams says. "Most healing journals deal with things that are challenging and difficult, but also the sweet, everyday things. Just a bit of light or little moments of beauty from the day to balance out what may be a bleak picture." See your journal -- and life in general -- as a tapestry, Adams says. When the threads are woven together, it makes a rich mosaic of bright and dark.

Before You Go

Health Benefits Of Gratitude
Good For Teens' Mental Health (01 of10)
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Grateful teens are happier, according to a study presented at one of the annual meetings of the American Psychological Association. Researchers also found that teens who are grateful -- defined in this study as having a positive outlook on life -- are more well-behaved at school and more hopeful than their less-grateful peers. They also got better grades, had less envy and more friends due to their optimism."More gratitude may be precisely what our society needs to raise a generation that is ready to make a difference in the world," said study researcher Giacomo Bono, Ph.D., a psychology professor at California State University. (credit:Shutterstock)
Boosts Well-Being(02 of10)
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Being constantly mindful of all the things you have to be thankful for can boost your well-being, research suggests.In a series of experiments detailed in a 2003 study in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, daily exercise practices and listing off all the things you are thankful for are linked with a brighter outlook on life and a greater sense of positivity. "There do appear to exist benefits to regularly focusing on one's blessings," the researchers wrote in the study. "The advantages are most pronounced when compared with a focus on hassles or complaints, yet are still apparent in comparison with simply reflecting the major events in one’s life, on ways in which one believes one is better off than comparison with others, or with a control group." (credit:Alamy)
Linked With Better Grades (03 of10)
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Grateful high-schoolers have higher GPAs -- as well as better social integration and satisfaction with life -- than their non-grateful counterparts, according to a 2010 study in the Journal of Happiness Studies.Researchers also found that grateful teens were less depressed and envious. This could be a factor in why the teens got better grades since they were less distracted and lived healthier lives."When combined with previous research, a clearer picture is beginning to emerge about the benefits of gratitude in adolescents, and thus an important gap in the literature on gratitude and well-being is beginning to be filled," researchers wrote. (credit:Alamy)
Makes You A Better Friend To Others (04 of10)
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According to a 2003 study in the the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, gratitude could also boost pro-social behaviors, such as helping other people who have problems or lending emotional support to another person. This explains why religious services include reflection days and why so many self-help groups such as AA (Alcoholics Anonymous) use grateful thinking practices. (credit:Alamy)
Helps You Sleep Better (05 of10)
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Writing down what you're thankful for as you drift off to sleep can quiet the mind and help you get better ZZs, according to a study in the journal Applied Psychology: Health and Well-Being. Specifically, researchers found that when people spent 15 minutes jotting down what they're grateful for in a journal before bedtime, they fell asleep faster and stayed asleep longer because they worried less, Psychology Today reported. Participants with neuromuscular disorders reported that they had more refreshing sleep in just 3 weeks. (credit:Shutterstock)
Strengthens Your Relationships(06 of10)
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Being thankful for the little things your partner does could make your relationship stronger, according to a study in the journal Personal Relationships.The Telegraph reported on the study, which showed that journaling about the thoughtful things your partner did was linked with a beneficial outcome on the relationship. The researchers found that gratitude for everyday kind gestures helps people become close to others who care about their well-being. They claim, "Gratitude may help to turn 'ordinary' moments into opportunities for relationship growth, even in the context of already close, communal relations.’' (credit:Shutterstock)
Benefits The Heart (07 of10)
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A 1995 study in the American Journal of Cardiology showed that appreciation and positive emotions are linked with changes in heart rate variability.
[This] may be beneficial in the treatment of hypertension and in reducing the likelihood of sudden death in patients with congestive heart failure and coronary artery disease.
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Is Good For Team Morale (08 of10)
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Athletes are less likely to burn out and more likely to experience high life satisfaction and team satisfaction when they are grateful, according to a 2008 study in the journal Social Indicators Research of high-schoolers.Gratitude sharpens the senses, enhancing athletic performance according to Positive Performance Training. (credit:Alamy)
Linked WIth Better Immune Health(09 of10)
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Gratefulness is linked with optimism, which in turn is linked with better immune health, WebMD reported. For example, a University of Utah study showed that stressed-out law students who were optimistic had more white blood cells (which help boost your immune system) than people who were pessimistic, according to WebMD. (credit:Alamy)
Protects You From Negative Emotions That Come With Extreme Loss (10 of10)
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WebMD reported that negative events can boost gratitude, and that gratitude can help to increase feelings of belonging and decrease feelings of stress.Interestingly, adversity can enhance gratitude, helping people to feel more connected after a terrible event, such as 9/11. A survey showed that feelings of gratitude were at high levels after 9/11, according to WebMD. (credit:Alamy)

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