New Moms Talk About Returning To Work After Maternity Leave

New Moms Talk About Returning To Work After Maternity Leave
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For new moms, heading back into the office after maternity leave can be tough. In a HuffPost Live conversation, mothers shared their experiences with the transition, talking about everything from pumping to finding affordable day care.

Mom of three Sinead Fox explained that after taking 42 weeks of maternity leave, life at the office was very different from what she remembered.

“You think you’ve forgotten everything you know the first time because you’ve been away for so long,” she told host Nancy Redd, who also just returned from maternity leave. “You haven't really had time to keep up-to-date when you’ve been breast-feeding, and I‘ve got three kids now, so there’s been a lot going on.”

Fox also explained feeling out-of-the-loop when she returned.

“You think you’ve missed out on everything, that you don’t know anything [about] what’s going on at work, she said. “You’re afraid to answer those questions ... so it’s a bit scary as well. Your confidence really takes a bit of a beating, too.”

For Farah Miller, executive editor of HuffPost Family and Relationships, the transition at her previous job was a bit easier. Miller reflected on her hectic first day back at work after maternity leave, which unexpectedly ended on a positive note.

“I just remember that I dropped [my daughter] off at day care, which was really hard and scary and all of those things, and then I had this huge smile,” she said.

Watch the full HuffPost Live conversation about life after maternity leave here:

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Maternity Leave Around The World (2012)
United States (01 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 12 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: No national program but cash benefits may be provided at the state level.
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Iceland (02 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 3 months for the mother, 3 months for the father, and 3 months that can be taken by either parent (total of 9 months)
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 80 (up to ISK350,000 per month)
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Germany(03 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 14 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Japan (04 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 14 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 67
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Malta (05 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 14 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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New Zealand (06 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 14 Weeks Paid, 38 Weeks Unpaid
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Switzerland (07 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 14 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 80
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Belgium(08 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 15 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 82 per cent for the first 30 days and 75 per cent for the remaining period.
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Finland(09 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 105 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 70
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Slovenia(10 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 105 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Austria(11 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 16 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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France(12 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 16 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Latvia(13 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 112 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Luxembourg(14 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 16 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Netherlands (15 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 16 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Spain (16 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 16 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Greece (17 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 119 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 50
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Australia(18 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 18 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: Each parent can take up to 12 months of leave, of which 18 weeks are paid.
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Lithuania(19 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 126 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Belarus(20 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 126 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Moldova (21 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 126 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Ukraine (22 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 126 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Romania (23 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 126 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 85
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Portugal (24 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 120 to 150 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: Parental benefits paid at 100 per cent for the shorter duration of leave and 80 per cent for the longer option
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Estonia(25 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 140 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Poland (26 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 20 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Russia (27 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 140 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Italy (28 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 5 Months
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 80
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Bulgaria(29 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 135 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid:90
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Hungary (30 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 24 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 70
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Ireland (31 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 26 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 80
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Czech Republic(32 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 28 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 60
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Slovakia(33 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 28 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 55
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Macedonia (34 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 9 Months
Percentage Of Wages Paid: Not found.
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Norway (35 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 36 to 46 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: Parental benefits paid at 100 per cent for the shorter duration of leave and 80 per cent for the longer option.
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Albania(36 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 365 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 80 per cent prior to birth and for 150 days after and 50 per cent for the rest of the leave period. Albanian Prime Minister Sali Berisha shown here.
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Bosnia And Herzegovina(37 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 1 Year
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 82 per cent for the first 30 days and 75 per cent for the remaining period.
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Canada(38 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 52 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 55 per cent at 17 weeks for maternity leave, and the additional 35 weeks can be taken by either parent. Wages also depend on province.
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Croatia(39 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 1 Year
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Denmark(40 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 52 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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Serbia(41 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 52 Weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 100
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United Kingdom (42 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 52 weeks; however, pay is only for 39 weeks
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 90% of average weekly earnings for first 6 weeks; £139.58 or 90% of average weekly earnings (whichever is lower) for next 33 weeks
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Sweden (43 of43)
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Length Of Maternity Leave: 420 Days
Percentage Of Wages Paid: 80
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