Mom Changes Her Anti-Vax Stance After Entire Family Gets Sick

Now her kids are fully vaccinated -- and she's urging other parents to do the same.
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Kristen O’Meara refused to vaccinate her children for more than five years. 

Then her entire family contracted Rotavirus, a potentially deadly stomach virus that can be prevented with a vaccination. It was a wake-up call she couldn’t ignore.

O’Meara decided to forego vaccines when her first daughter, Natasha, was born in 2010. “I entered motherhood with what I thought was a healthy skepticism regarding vaccination,” she wrote in a New York Post article last week.

The Chicago-area special needs teacher purposely sought out books and research that confirmed what she already believed to be true: vaccinations were dangerous and could be linked to anything from ADHD to autism.

“I got absorbed in the anti-vax culture and secretly thought of myself as being superior to others,” O’Meara wrote in the New York Post. “As far as I was concerned, [parents who vaccinate] didn’t stop to question and were just sheep following the herd.”

However, O’Meara’s staunch beliefs were put to a painful test in 2015 ― all three of her daughters contracted Rotavirus, and she and her husband fell ill as well.

“It was horrible to see my daughters hunched over on the toilet, crying from the painful cramping that lasted a week after the acute illness,” O’Meara wrote in a blog post for pro-vaccination organization Voices for Vaccines. “Once I realized what we all had, and that it could have been prevented with a vaccine, a spark of doubt began to grow.”

After that experience, O’Meara decided to do another round of research ― this time taking into account information that showed the benefits of vaccination. Ultimately, she came to the conclusion that vaccinating was the right thing to do.

“I am frustrated with the amount of misinformation I encountered when I set out on this journey,” she wrote on Voices for Vaccines, “but in the end I am thankful, for the sake of my children, that I was able to reassess my position and accept information that is based on well established, sound scientific evidence.”

O’Meara only wishes she had come to this conclusion sooner. “I put my kids at risk,” she told ABC News. “I wish that I had taken more time to research from both sides before my children were born.” 

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The evidence that vaccination is critical and safe is well-established. Numerous studies have rejected the commonly cited correlation between vaccination and autism.

Even so, the anti-vaccine movement remains a growing issue for doctors in the U.S. In 2013, 87 percent of doctors had encountered parents who refused a vaccine for their child, according to a study published in August. That number appears to have risen since 2006, when about 75 percent of doctors said they’d encountered parents who refused a vaccine. 

And a review that appeared in The Journal of the American Medical Association in March found a correlation between increased vaccine refusal and the rise of two vaccine-preventable diseases ― measles and whooping cough.

O’Meara hopes her story will sway other parents to seek out science-backed information and vaccinate their kids as well.

I’m here because I wanted to share my personal story,” O’Meara told ABC News. “If it does help someone change their mind, then that’s great.”

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Before You Go

12 Vaccines For Your Child
Hepatitis B(01 of12)
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Your newborn should get this shot even before leaving the hospital, and receive another dose at one to two months and a third at six to 18 months. The vaccine protects against an incurable, liver-infecting virus, hepatitis B, which can be passed to a baby during childbirth if the mother is infected. This virus spreads through contact with blood or other body fluids (sharing toothbrushes and utensils can put you at risk). Soreness at the site of the shot, or a slight fever, is the most common side effect, according to Gabrielle Gold-Von Simson, M.D., associate professor of pediatrics at NYU Langone Medical Center in New York.
DTaP(02 of12)
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The DTaP vaccine protects against diphtheria (a germ that can form a gray or black film in the throat), tetanus (an infection that can cause muscle spasms so strong they can break bones), and pertussis (a highly contagious disease that causes a severe, uncontrollable cough, known as whooping cough). Five vaccine doses are given to children at two months, four months, six months, 15 to 18 months and four to six years. (And boosters at age 11 or 12 and then every 10 years.) DTaP may be combined with other vaccinations to reduce the number of shots needed. "Now, it's DTaP with hepatitis B and the polio vaccine. So, it's five in one," Dr. Gold-Von Simson says.
MMR(03 of12)
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This combo shot protects against three viruses: measles (which causes high fever and a body-wide rash); mumps (which causes face pain, swelling of the salivary glands, and sometimes scrotal swelling in boys); and rubella or German measles (which can cause birth defects if the infection occurs during pregnancy). The first shot is given at 12 to 15 months of age and once again between the ages of four and six. MMR is sometimes combined with the chickenpox vaccine into one shot (brand name ProQuad). "All these different preparations are designed to reduce the amount of shots the pediatrician has to give," says Dr. Gold-Von Simson.
Chickenpox(04 of12)
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Chickenpox, a highly contagious rash that many people remember from childhood, is caused by the varicella virus. A varicella vaccine was first licensed in 1995 and now spares future generations this itchy misery.Chickenpox infections can be especially dangerous in adults who don't have immunity from the vaccine or haven't had it in childhood, and can also lead to shingles, an extremely painful blistering rash.The shot is given to children at 12 to 15 months and again between four and six years. The vaccine can cause soreness at the site of the shot, fever, and, in some cases, a mild rash.
Haemophilus Influenza Type B (Hib)(05 of12)
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"Haemophilus influenza type b is the bacterium that causes meningitis," says Dr. Gold-Von Simson. Meningitis, an inflammation of the membranes surrounding the brain and spinal cord, is particularly dangerous for kids under the age of five. Hib vaccines are generally given at two, four, six, and 12 to 15 months of age. Depending on the vaccine used, the six-month shot may not be needed. Fever, swelling, and redness at the site of the shot are potential side effects. (credit:Getty )
Polio (IPV)(06 of12)
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Polio vaccine is "such a success," says Dr. Gold-Von Simson. "Because of the vaccine, there are no more cases [of polio]." There are no more in the United States that is. The virus hasn't been eradicated worldwide, so kids still get the IPV, or inactivated polio vaccine, which is a shot containing killed virus. Polio is bad news, and can cause paralysis and even death. Children are given the IPV at two months, four months, between six to 18 months, and then again between the ages of four and six years. (credit:Getty)
Pneumococcal Conjugate (PCV)(07 of12)
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This vaccine, known as PCV13 (brand name Prevnar), protects against 13 types of Streptococcus pneumoniae, which are bacteria that can cause all sorts of mayhem, including meningitis, pneumonia, ear infections, blood infections, and even death.A total of four shots are given to kids (at two, four, six, and 12 to 15 months of age) to protect them against the germs, known collectively as pneumococcal bacteria.The most common side effects of the vaccine include drowsiness, swelling at the site of the shot, mild fever, and irritability.
Influenza (flu)(08 of12)
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Flu vaccinations are given each year starting in the fall. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention recommends them for kids ages six months or older, although they aren't required for school attendance. (Connecticut and New Jersey require the vaccine for attending child-care centers and preschool.) Common side effects from the vaccine include soreness, redness, or swelling at the site of the shot. Fever and aches may occur too. "If you have an egg allergy, you shouldn't have the influenza vaccine," says Dr. Gold-Von Simson. (credit:Getty)
Rotavirus (RV)(09 of12)
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The rotavirus vaccine (RV) (brand names RotaTeq, Rotarix) is given to children at two and four months of age. (RotaTeq is also given at six months.) The vaccine protects against a virus that is the most common cause of severe diarrhea and vomiting in young kids worldwide. About 55,000 children in the U.S. were hospitalized each year due to rotavirus before the vaccine was licensed in 2006.It is not required for school attendance.The vaccine is in liquid form and given by mouth to babies. It may make them a bit more irritable and can also cause mild diarrhea or vomiting.
Hepatitis A(10 of12)
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Kids can catch hepatitis A from sharing food or drinks or by putting contaminated food or objects in their mouths. It's a viral infection that affects the liver, and can cause a number of symptoms, including fever, tiredness, jaundice, and loss of appetite.Children ages 12 through 23 months generally get two doses of the Hep A vaccine, with a minimum interval of six months between shots. Some states require the vaccine for school attendance.Soreness where the shot was given, headache, and loss of appetite are the most common side effects of the vaccine.
Meningococcal Conjugate (MCV4)(11 of12)
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This vaccine, known as MCV4 (brand name Menactra), protects against meningococcal bacteria, which can infect the membranes surrounding the brain and spinal cord. MCV4 is recommended for kids at 11 or 12 years of age, and anyone between ages two and 55 who is at increased risk of infection (people with certain health conditions, military recruits).Teens starting college should be vaccinated with MCV4 before going to school if they didn't previously get the shot. (Freshman living in dorms are at increased risk of infection.)A little pain at the site of the shot is the most common side effect.
Human Papillomavirus (HPV)(12 of12)
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Human papillomavirus (HPV) vaccine (brand names Gardasil, Cervarix) is given in three doses over a six-month period, and is approved for girls between ages nine and 26.While there are over a hundred types of HPV, this vaccine protects against two sexually transmitted types that are the most common causes of cervical cancer. Gardasil also protects against two types that cause genital warts and is approved for boys between nine and 26 as well.The vaccine works only if given before an infection, so doctors recommend it for kids well before they could become sexually active. Although most states don't require HPV vaccination, many are considering mandating it for preteen girls. (credit:Getty)

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