50 Bikers With Big Hearts Escort Bullied 6th-Grader To School

When Tammy Mick learned that her son had considered hurting himself, she turned to a friend for help.
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Bullies are intimidating because they’re rude, mean and sometimes violent. But they can be intimidated, too.

That’s why a group of 50 bikers in Dekalb County, Indiana, used their image to help one sixth-grade student teach his classmates a lesson: Bullying is bad, not badass.

The bikers, brought together by Brent Warfield of the social group United Motorcycle Enthusiasts, on Tuesday escorted 11-year-old Phil Mick to his first day of class at Dekalb Middle School.

Phil rode onto campus on the back of Warfield’s bike. 

Warfield, director of the biker club and sales manager at KDZ Motorcycle Sales & Service, brought the group of bikers together after Phil’s mom, Tammy Mick, told him Phil had been bullied at school last year.

Mick said she discovered that other kids were hitting and punching her son when Phil came home with bruises. 

“It tore my heart out,” Mick told HuffPost of the bullying.

Warfield stepped in to help after Mick said that Phil had talked about killing himself, according to Fort Wayne news station WANE.

“I said, ’Well, get with me. I’ve got a bunch of big-hearted bikers that are good friends of mine,’” Warfield told the station.

He used Facebook to ask his biker friends for help escorting Phil to his first day of school, writing that he wanted to make a positive impact on Phil and show other kids that “bullying isn’t cool.”

“Help spread the word that bullying leads to teenage suicide,” he added. “Let kids know we are there for them!”

Phil and his parents had breakfast with the bikers on Tuesday before the big ride, according to WANE. The group also said a prayer before forming their caravan. 

Jon Strack, a biker in the group who is also known as Bear, said that teachers, students and administrators were all excited to see them and that they welcomed Phil’s biker friends with smiles and waves.

Phil was all smiles too.

“The excitement we felt as Phil looked at all the bikes there for him was amazing,” Strack, who also the president of Jingoes Motorcycle in Columbia City, told HuffPost. “The feeling we experienced was a joy in being able to help this young man.”

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Tammy Mick
Phil Mick, 11, was all smiles when he met up with members of United Motorcycle Enthusiasts on his first day of school.

Strack said the bikers of United Motorcycle Enthusiasts learned that the impact their group can make on their local community is never unappreciated. He said he thinks Phil will cherish memories from that day for a very long time.

“Our message to anyone who bullies someone else is this: What you are doing is never without consequences. The impact you are having in the people’s lives you pick on is one that will stay with them forever. There is more to life than getting joy from others’ pain,” Strack said.

With Phil’s first week of school behind him, his mom says she sees a dramatic change in her son. 

“He comes home smiling after school,” she said.

CORRECTION: A previous version of this story incorrectly identified Warfield as owner of KDZ Motorcycle Sales & Service. He is the sales manager.

If you or someone you know needs help, call 1-800-273-8255 for the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. You can also text HELLO to 741-741 for free, 24-hour support from the Crisis Text Line. Outside of the U.S., please visit the International Association for Suicide Prevention for a database of resources.

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Before You Go

How To Talk About Bullying
DO: Tell Them They Are Not Alone(01 of11)
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Bullying can be an incredibly isolating experience, and many victims feel that they are alone–that something about them, specifically, has brought this on. Explain to your child that bullying is something that can happen to anyone: boys, girls, preschoolers, high schoolers, kids at large schools and kids at small schools. This means there is a large group of people impacted by bullying, and if we all work together, we can certainly make a difference. (credit:Shutterstock)
DON'T: Suggest They "Just Ignore It"(02 of11)
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A common reaction to bullying is encouraging the victim to ignore the bully. "They just want a reaction," people say, and if you deny them the reaction, they'll go away. That's not always the case. Sometimes, when the bully realizes they are being ignored, they can feel a sense of power over their victim that can actually make the situation worse. (credit:Shutterstock)
DO: Check In Regularly(03 of11)
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Asking your child basic questions about their day and their experience at school can help you catch a problem sooner. Ask how a specific class was, or who they sat with at lunch. Ask who is trying out for the team, or who is going to local fair that weekend. These harmless questions tell your child that you care, but they can also help you detect changes in your child's situation that may indicate a bullying problem. (credit:Getty Images)
DON'T: Suggest Your Child Stand Up To The Bully(04 of11)
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While helping your child prepare a speech or enrolling them in self-defense courses might seem like an empowering solution, you're sending the message to your child that this problem is theirs, and that they have to handle it alone. Instead, discuss what some solutions might be and involve your child in the decision making process. (credit:Shutterstock)
DO: Set Boundaries Online(05 of11)
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The National Crime Prevention Council reports that 20 to 43 percent of middle and high school school students have reported being victims of cyber bullying. Encourage your child to protect themselves by following these two guidelines:1. Never say or do anything online that you wouldn't say or do in person. 2. Never share any information that you wouldn't tell a stranger. (credit:Shutterstock)
DON'T: Express Disbelief(06 of11)
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While we'd like to think we know everything about our children and their friends, don't express disbelief if they say someone has done something that shocks you. Your child needs to know that they can trust you. Asking them to provide evidence or saying that someone "would never do that" can come across as you taking the side of someone other than your child. Instead, be as supportive as possible and listen to their side. (credit:Shutterstock)
DO: Encourage Them To Speak Up(07 of11)
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A recent study of children ages 9 to 12, showed that 56 percent said that they usually either say or do something to try to stop bullying or tell someone who can help (Brown, Birch, & Kancherla, 2005). Make sure your child knows who he or she can talk to if they have something they want to share, whether that is you, a school counselor, a teacher or a coach. (credit:Shutterstock)
DO: Discourage Password Sharing(08 of11)
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Explain the importance of keeping online passwords private, even from close friends. Your child may be thinking that sharing a password with a close friend is harmless and convenient, but explain that anyone with their password could impersonate them online and embarrass them. If they insist that the friend would never do that, remind them that the friend could share their password, either intentionally or unintentionally, and someone else would have that same power. (credit:Shutterstock)
DON'T: Take Matters Entirely Into Your Own Hands(09 of11)
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While your first reaction may be to protect your child by calling the parent of the bully or confront the child yourself, this is not always a good solution. Not only is this this rarely effective, it may even prove fodder for additional bullying. Your child wants to feel empowered and involved in the solution, so discuss options with him or her and work together to decide on a plan of action. (credit:Shutterstock)
DO: Be Patient(10 of11)
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Your child may be embarrassed or afraid to talk about what is happening to them. This is normal. Rather than pressuring your child into speaking before they are ready, just make it clear that you are willing to listen and be a source of support for them. Once they feel comfortable, they will know that they can open up to you and seek your advice. Better yet, if you've had this conversation preemptively, before a problem arises, your child will know right away that you can be their partner in finding a solution. (credit:Shutterstock)
DO: Find Resources Online(11 of11)
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Green Giant's Raise A Giant site includes a page that lets you read letters other parents have written to empower their children. You can write your own letter and explore their other resources, including videos and sharable infographics. PACER's National Bullying Prevention Center site also has a page with resources like informational handouts, fact sheets, educational toolkits, and the "We Will Generation." You can also browse the video page to see if some of their video resources would be helpful for you or for your child. Green Giant's Raise A Giant site includes a page that lets you write a letter to empower your child, but you can also read the letters other parents have written to inspire your talks with your child. (credit:Shutterstock)

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