Widower Says His Baby Quadruplets Give Him 'Four Reasons To Live'

Widower Says His Baby Quadruplets Give Him 'Four Reasons To Live'
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After struggling to conceive for years, Carlos and Erica Morales were overjoyed (albeit a bit overwhelmed) to learn that they were expecting quadruplets. But tragedy struck when Erica passed away in January, just hours after giving birth to their four babies.

In an interview with People magazine, Carlos described welcoming their son and three daughters as "the best day of [his] life." But roughly five hours later came "the worst day of [his] life," he added. Shortly after delivering her babies via C-section, Erica went into hypovolemic shock, an emergency condition characterized by severe fluid loss, and ultimately, her heart stopped.

When doctors told Carlos the news, "I was shocked," he recalled in the People interview. "I was devastated." After a short time in the NICU, two of the quadruplets -- Tracey and Carlos Jr. -- got to go home. Babies Paisley and Erica joined them on March 11.

Carlos appeared on the "TODAY" show this week, along with Erica's mother Sondra Bridges, to discuss life at home with the new babies. Holding the quads in their arms, they explained that they're taking things day by day. "We're just doing our best," Carlos said, adding that the babies are healthy and growing every day.


Carols Morales and mother-in-law Sondra Bridges on "TODAY"

As a warehouse supervisor, the dad was concerned about his ability to provide for four new babies on his income alone, so Erica's best friend Nicole Todman set up a Facebook and GoFundMe page to help cover some of their expenses and share updates about the quadruplets. To date, the page has raised over $350,000 from friends, family, community members, and total strangers who were moved by the Morales' tragic story.

Carlos told "TODAY" that he is "grateful" to everyone who donated to his family. Expressing her gratitude, mother-in-law Sondra added, “It’s funny how things turn out. Bittersweet, but at the same time, thanks to God, and the outpouring support of the public, it’s been phenomenal.”

While the road ahead will undoubtedly be difficult for the Morales family, Carlos is committed to being a good father to his children. As he told People, "These babies don't know yet what blessings they have given me. They have given me four reasons to live."

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Quotes About Fatherhood
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"Having a staring contest with a newborn is one of the weirdest things you will ever do. And it is highly recommended." -Ross McCammon (credit:Alamy)
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"Above all, children need our unconditional love, whether they succeed or make mistakes; when life is easy and when life is tough." -President Obama (credit:Alamy)
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"Blessed indeed is the man who hears many gentle voices call him father!" -Lydia M. Child (credit:Alamy)
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"You fathers will understand. You have a little girl. She looks up to you. You're her oracle. You're her hero." -Stanley T. Banks, Father of the Bride (credit:Alamy)
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"Do I want to be a hero to my son? No. I would like to be a very real human being. That's hard enough." -Robert Downey Jr. (credit:Alamy)
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"I thought I would be more inspired to have all these new feelings to talk about, but I really just want to hang out with my daughter." Jay-Z (credit:Alamy)
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"The reward of child rearing is spending the rest of your life proudly knowing this person you helped guide. Let him be himself." -Mike Sager (credit:Alamy)
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"I want my son to wear a helmet 24 hours a day." -Will Arnett (credit:Alamy)
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"This is my most important role. If I fail at this, I fail at everything." -Mark Wahlberg (credit:Alamy)
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"It is admirable for a man to take his son fishing, but there is a special place in heaven for the father who takes his daughter shopping."-John Sinor (credit:Alamy)
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"It is much easier to become a father than to be one." -Kent Nerburn, Letters to My Son: Reflections on Becoming a Man (credit:Alamy)
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"Lately all my friends are worried that they're turning into their fathers. I'm worried that I'm not." -Dan Zevin (credit:Alamy)
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"By the time a man realizes that maybe his father was right, he usually has a son who thinks he's wrong." -Charles Wadsworth (credit:Alamy)
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"Few sons are like their fathers - many are worse, few better." -Homer, The Odyssey (credit:Alamy)
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"It was times like these when I thought my father, who hated guns and had never been to any wars, was the bravest man who ever lived. "-Harper Lee, To Kill a Mockingbird (credit:Alamy)
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"Father! - To God himself we cannot give a holier name." -William Wordsworth

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